I do remember thinking whether we could end up potentially regretting the voting down of May's deal if we ended up sleepwalking into a no deal situation. Which it appears is sadly not an unrealistic situation anymore (and in fact is rabidly supported by some of the more extreme Brexiteers).
I agree with
@Fluctuation0161 that there is perhaps an element of victim blaming there but once the vote happened, I think views on both sides became a bit more entrenched and some remainers lost sight of what should perhaps have been the ultimate aim, which is to ensure the softest of Brexits and as good a possible relationship with the EU in the future, hopefully with a view to rejoining in the medium to long term.
I'm also a bit surprised to see people talking about the support for remain in a new referendum. Does anyone here actually know a leaver who's changed their mind? Seems like the same sort of wishful thinking we've all had for the past 4 years.