Apologies, been working in Berlin.
So who gets to decide what is xenophobic? You? Isnt it stupid to complain about people being xenophobic and yet attach yourself to the EU who puts up borders and stops people coming in?
Where is the limit for you? In an ideal world, where are your borders? Or don’t you have any?
All those questions are fair questions. And honestly I do not have a simple question. Is a struggle with my morals, my selfishness, what I have been told is "good" or "bad"
Answering the last part, for me is clear that not restricting borders with governments and companies taking advantage of the less fortunate, would be madness. Without a decent minimum salary, without perusing who is employing illegal immigrants (for starters), capitalistic western societies would go down the drain pretty quickly without restrictions.
About your first part, About if is stupid complaining being xenophobic? I do think is not when the xenophobic reasons are stupid. IMO, Economically speaking, being in the EU, is more positive than negative. Immigration brought prosperity both ways (receiving and being able to enjoy mobility) in rich countries (maybe not so to the poor ones that had been drained of their best and/or younger workforce)
UK for starters have very good professionals in healthcare that didn't have to pay their education, basically other countries paid for free for their education. And they probably pay them less at the beginning and for sure less that if UK would have job market constrains, struggling to get just UK doctors and nurses. And that is just an example.
Also, you have a young workforce that you can have a fair debate about jobs that they take or lower salaries (that would be solved having a decent minimum salary and punish companies that employ illegal immigrants), but they consum (generating jobs), pay taxes (generating jobs) and they barely use any public services (there are exceptions of course) while you send old farts to enjoy spanish services in la costa del sol, consuming, yes but not paying taxes and using A LOT of the services. Basically widening the pyramid at the base and shrinking it on the top.
Is clear what is better. Having 100.000 spanish young waiters working in UK or 200.000 old farts consuming NHS spanish services (obviously cliches and made up numbers, but there are more brits in spain than spaniards in UK)
And that, again, is just an example.
Xenophobs might not like foreigners for whatever reasons, maybe right, maybe racism, maybe they fecked your wife, maybe they been lied. But economically speaking, IMO (again IMO) is stupid to get out
IN conclusion. Putting borders between countries of unequal economic level, I might understand some reasons, there are as well solutions. But between the EU? I think is stupid xenophobia, so no, I don't find stupid complaining.
Then we can discuss another debate that might be ideologic. That people want to quit for other reasons. There, I can't debate as is a much difficult debate and the differences are of another spectrum and I might even agree as I am not a big fan of the EU and several of their policies