It is designed to do neither. I am not denying the existence of a great deal of poverty in this country, nor do I in the slightest amount believe that somehow this society is equal or that many millions aren't desperate or that they haven't been shafted for generations. The notion that things can't get worse is the thing I am objecting to. Not that they should be thankful they aren't in the bloody congo, but that it isn't necessarily in people's best interests to inadvertently go in that direction. Your insinuation that asserting things can get worse means I and others don't wish for them to get better or that desperate people should somehow be grateful is a shameful distortion of the position I hold. My position is that Europe is, has and will continue to be a fig leaf for this country's problems and that the inequality you and I both fervently resent finds its nexus in this countries institutions, administrations and policies. The axe you grind is aiming for the wrong neck.
Here's your problem. You are entirely unwilling to grant reasonableness to your interlocutor and instead bring to the table a vast array of preconceived notions about who they are and how they arrive at their decisions. You then ironically accuse them of the self same thing with regards to vulnerable people.
Education, time, space and access to resources and information is severely lacking in impoverished communities. In no way does this society provide an equitable portion to each. This is part of what being impoverished actually means. Being uninformed does not equate to people being a bit dim, it equates to having a lack of information and a lack of access to it. This is a terrible thing. In no way is it sneering to point it out, it's complacent and alarming to pretend the problem isn't there. I know exactly what having barely enough to get by on an exhausting 40 hour week in a two bed flat with 4 kids actually means. Where I can't afford a computer, the local library's shut down and where the primary nagging pressing concern is a never ending line of rent, food, shoes.