You weren't really paying attention then.
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/u...-european-parliament-negotiator-a7790886.html
Mr Verhofstadt said. “But like Alice in Wonderland not all the doors are the same. It will be a brand new door, with a new Europe, a Europe without rebates, without complexity, with real powers and with unity. That is the door towards Europe.”
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If the Tory Party pr even labour backtracks on Brexit then they will lose all the credibility they have. It will also make the EU look like the villain who made it impossible for the UK government to obey the will of the people forcing these same people to change their views. It is therefore within the UK/EU interest that Brexit occurs. However a quick access to the EEA will make the former leave this messy situation with some dignity and will limit any serious financial repercussions on the EU-UK economy (the UK will lose its rebates, but the economy is strong enough to tank that).
Once in the EEA the UK can either decide to remain there (ie unrestricted access to the single market, ie it accepts all EU members rules and obligations but it will have no voice on European matters) or re-apply for EU membership again (ie a return to some of the rebates + a meaningful voice on EU matters). However, note that new members tend to have far less rights then older members. For example Malta who joined the EU in 2004 had to adopt the Euro something that wasn't neccessary for older EU members to do. Romania and Bulgaria had to accept a temporary restriction on their freedom of movement.
And no one said that the UK won't be allowed the ability to vote. All I am saying is that things won't revert to what they used to be. The UK has been halting the EU efforts of a closer integration for decades. If it backtracks from Brexit then assurances will be made to make sure that it wont be in a position to hurt the EU again or stop its natural progression to a closer union. As Merkel said, you can't really rely on the UK anymore.
Its all within the UK's court of course. The UK can still insist on the Brexiters bald plan if they want to.