Closer to the US and not liking Europe? IMO, not really. Of course we have the common language with the US but we are in most respects more like our immediate neighbours - the belief in the social safety net, the post-religious nature of our society etc. We certainly have a business only attitude to Europe but that is a product of history - the UK is not trying to tie down its Eastern neighbour who has beaten it up 3 times since 1870, nor is it seeking a return to normalcy after dictatorship or escaping Russian domination.
As for Russia, I don't see why we have to accept Russian nationalism and aggression, particularly as that country has nothing much to back up the bellicosity. As for the Baltics, yes there is a certain pettiness and discrimination towards Russian speakers but you do have to bear in mind the history - most of them were descendants of post-1940/45 immigrants who were moved in as hundreds of thousands of natives were shipped off to Siberian gulags.
As for the EU army, let's see. I personally think a lot of Europeans have lost touch with reality over the last 70 years and think you no longer need armies. It will certainly be a hard sell to voters to raise defence spending to anything like the level needed to replace the US NATO shield.