Don't say things you don't mean. That's the problem when pretending to sit on the fence or be reasonable with unreasonable views, you try to hide behind words and yet expose yourselves with them. When you should just stand by what you really think and let the proverbial chips fall.
Domestic violence and rape are very different to "other things in life". Your attempts to trivialise "all things" in life as the same, are very strange at best. If you don't understand that, then you really do need to have a proper think about what it is you mean and actually want to say.