And your whole post is addressed in my previous post. This is why I avoid this thread, logic and reason seems to go out the window when it comes to Brexit. Don't quote me.
I'm going to quote you because you are the one not using logic. Brexit means that you are an outsider which is absolutely not new, that's a complete fallacy to pretend that Brexit is special when it comes to the future FTA, you are no different to Canada, the US, Turkey, Norway or South Korea. You are outsiders and will be treated like outsiders because that's the decision that you made.
On that particular point, it's quite simple. The EU will not give the perks of full membership to a country that isn't a full member, it stops and starts there.