So you're saying if you start a new job and you get given a laptop from 2005 and you can't get your work out on time because it's a hunk of junk, that you should just maximize the tools at your disposal? And when you're late with your data analyses or reports, you should suck it up and nobody should wait till you get a better machine to work with to see what you can actually do? We can all argue in extremes but patience is not just waiting till you feel unhappy, but waiting till the time given reasonably matches the magnitude of the task. Cleaning a house is different from renovating one.
1) Can we categorically say our team/players are worse than the 14 teams above us? - Yes, I'd say we can just about categorically say our team is worse than the 14 above us. We might have a couple of better individuals but as a whole we are a mish mash of failed regimes and one guy's fixation for very average ex-players from the Dutch league. We were 13th when Amorim came in this season, and had underlying stats of 15th place last season. If that's not enough, the eye test of our players failing 5 yard passes, and missing open goals tells me that too.
2) The manager's tactics has hamstrung them, they are shackled - That's a reach. So Ten Hag also shackled them then? Because they weren't much better before in a 4-2-3-1 / 4-3-3 / 4-Donut-1.
3) Hojlund is a willing runner, he works hard, he just needs a better system - Hojlund is a very average young player who could reasonably improve in a better environment/team, but he has shown from his wrestling with defenders, misplacing passes and never being in a position to score that at this point in time, he would struggle to hold down a starting position at Southampton.
4) Zirkzee has shown he has the footwork to be a technical footballer - I agree with this, and unlike Hojlund, he is showing it even in Amorim's system.