I'm on board with all your points here, but there's a caveat. At times, one's dislike for a manager can stem from various facets—be it their presence, press conferences, the players they sign, or the statements they make. It's not always solely about the victories, not for everyone.
If I could have a manager who ticks all the boxes for me in those aspects you mentioned, and the results mirror our current sporting achievements, then, in my eyes, the situation could be different. It's just that I'm not fond of the man.
I understand that some supporters are solely focused on winning games, and I completely respect that perspective. However, for me, it goes beyond just winning. I've hardly missed a handful of United games since the early 1990s, and United means much more to me than mere results. I used to relish watching Sir Alex engaging in battles with Arsene or his candid outbursts during press conferences. I admired Mourinho, until I didn't. Yet, he had a captivating personality when expressing himself, bringing smiles and players like Zlatan who provided moments of magic.
EtH's "regime" seems to be built on rules and principles, and nothing more. His persona is more akin to a robot or a general than a football manager, and that's not my cup of tea.
That I can understand. I do think you would do yourself a favor by giving EtH a bit more time there, to also adjust how England works as a social system, the mannerisms. He isn't a latino like Poch. Ten Hag comes from East of The Netherlands, not famed for being all open and super social (Hiddink might be an exception but even he was and is also kind of a muted personality).
And yet the man has charm, I think. He gave Sancho all the time he needed, went and looked and got him special, personalised coaches. Shielded him away 'no comment' early 23 when press asked after 3 months out of the squad. Famous is the instance he himself did a 12 mile run with his team after that Brighton loss. Then you see him dancing with Martinez and Antony after that Carabao cup. Stayed dignified even after Ronaldo detonated a few bombs in his face. In fact, Ten Hag publicly, hasn't slagged off any of his players that I can recall.
But then there is another ugly truth about this current United squad. Its a group that downs tools easely. There was no disipline. Many people said when Ten Hag came in: finally a man that stands up to discipline. Some players took it and started to perform, some didn't. The sometimes robot like Ten Hag is just what the doctor ordered to get the team together in my opinion.
Again speaking for myself, what I liked about his public appearance is his constantly repeated message that for United each and every game needs to be won. There has to be a winning display against all opponents. All teams must fear the fierceness. And that he is trying to implement.
But, for sure, I can see why his persona isn't everyone's cookie and that he can improve some aspects of presentation too. I hope, as long as he doesn't give us 3 or 4 big ugly losses in a row, he also gets time to learn that. He is only 52 (edit: he is 54, I stand corrected
@stefan92 ) and quite young for a coach, and doesn't seem to be too big to admit mistakes. Have you ever heard a coach, a United coach, say that a critic sometimes has a point? That they have valuable feedback? And look how we all - me included - wrote off Casemiro for being stupid with the cards. Ten Hag defended him, saying referees are biased against him. Last nights no red card for that Bruno throat grab was a reminder for me how he has a point in that too.
For me, Ten Hag showed he isn't perfect, maybe needs to learn but maybe thats also why he is exactly what this group needs, as long as he produces wins with that gutted current squad.