Haha, yeah that is one example of how perceiving is not always believing. For as long as I've watched football, it don't matter if you break your opponents legs, if he gets his shot off..it's always just a goal kick and never a penalty. It's like the refs think theres an old rule that says it's too late to blow for a pen when the ball is out of play. It's such a normalised situation and all refs mostly do this and it's really only a cowardly way of not wanting to make a big decision, because the little decision is so quick to make right after. If the keeper comes out and misses the ball, he barely even needs to touch the player, it's so obvious they'll blow a pen just cause of how it looks. You get the ball or it's a pen, but like this and in the Sancho instance. The lines are blurred into vague terms like "softness" and even "clumsy by the attacker". The decision is more difficult because of circumstances, but all things being equal both of those are nailed on pens. Defender tackled, didn't get the ball, and gained an unfair advantage of it, which the refs job is to award a penalty for.