I completely agree. That recent farce of Mike Dean not overturning that red card incident because it was his mate and he didn't want to make his job harder only goes to show how much of an utter disaster VAR is. I think with women reffing men's games, men won't be getting up in their faces like they do when it's a chinless weakling like Oliver. All the dick swinging between male refs and players will be gone, and hopefully what's left is someone who just calls 'em like she sees 'em.
You're right about the speed of the game, too, and she might have more of an issue keeping up with play. VAR should be used if the center ref calls for it, not operating on its own. So if she thinks she missed an incident off the ball, she can signal for VAR to have a look, that kind of thing. I hate how VAR checks every player off the ball in a goal incident to see if they can find any reason to call the goal back, and it's even worse with their fecking offside lines they draw.
Just let the game flow, get refs who don't need to swing their dicks to show they are in charge, and use VAR for those clear and obvious errors, emphasizing both clear and obvious.