Transgender rights discussion

He's playing 4D chess whilst the rest of us are playing normal chess where the King and Queen both walk into women's bathrooms with erections.

Not at all, he's merely saying that once your Benoni's on the board you have to fianchetto your bishop.
 
The furore surrounding trans people and them assaulting others is especially ridiculous when constant stories come out about cis straight men sexually assaulting numerous people and children.

It's an entirely made up problem, because conservatives and reactionaries need to have a new group to demonize. I doubt that the people who are most up in arms about "trans activists" have ever actually met a trans person.
 
The furore surrounding trans people and them assaulting others is especially ridiculous when constant stories come out about cis straight men sexually assaulting numerous people and children.
It straight up stinks of ignorance. Like when the pushback towards gay people was stuff along the lines of “but what if this weirdo tries to shag me, you know, because he’s a weirdo?” It’s just another case of inserting sexuality into something inherently non-sexual because they don’t understand it. All trans people must therefore be perverts.
 
Entitled to safe spaces full of vulnerable women should not be automatically granted purely because someone declares their right to be there.

The mental gymnastics involved in declaring that statement transphobic is a sign of the state of the whole debate

They don't, it's granted generally because science and law declares their right to be there. Two things that spend quite a lot of time, energy, research, education and understanding when coming to their opinion, unlike you.

The only one doing mental gymnastics here is you.
 
I’ve worked with charities who have worked with women who have been abused, both physically and sexually to the point where the sight of a penis is genuinely traumatic for them. I’ve met a daughter who was abused over years by her dad (who had a moustache) that she was genuinely terrified of men with moustaches. Trauma manifests in different ways for different people but women only spaces, whether that be a refuge or a centre should literally be penis free.
Do we need to make bathrooms for women vagina-free as well? Just in case someone using the facilities was assaulted by a lesbian?

I'm know I'm being course, but what exactly is the percentage of "women" using bathrooms that have a phobia of knobs? Is it enough to say "feck off" to every single person who identifies as female being able to use the facilities they should be able to use? We're not talking about some rapist bloke who's decided to put on some makeup and a dress here.
 
Do we need to make bathrooms for women vagina-free as well? Just in case someone using the facilities was assaulted by a lesbian?

I'm know I'm being course, but what exactly is the percentage of "women" using bathrooms that have a phobia of knobs? Is it enough to say "feck off" to every single person who identifies as female being able to use the facilities they should be able to use? We're not talking about some rapist bloke who's decided to put on some makeup and a dress here.
I’ve made no mention of bathrooms though. I’m talking specifically about women’s refuges and shelters.
 
Yeah but you responded to @Maagge who was specifically talking about bathrooms.
Yea but he was replying to a post about women only spaces, which is what my post was centred on.

I should have quoted that poster instead, but my overall point still stands.
 
I am possibly in the unusual position of having two good friends who have both had their daughters transition to men. This happened in both cases about 4 years ago once the final operations were completed. Both of them happy productive members of the community and nobody would be able to tell unless told.
I have been watching the whole anti Trans thing grow quickly in the last couple of years and it now seems to becoming more dangerous and vitriolic. I dont recall it being this bad 4-5 years ago and Im also watching the spin being applied and outright lies being pushed by the likes of Posie Parker, the subsequent result is a lot of people starting to make all sorts of hyperbolic claims.
There are issues that need solving but the dangerous rhetoric starting to take hold is making worry we will see some sort of horrible hate crimes committed as more and more people start to lose the plot. It seems to me to have become a weaponised issue. The safe women spaces argument is a fair one and something we need to make sure is looked after but the way Trans people are being portrayed within this is far removed from whats happening.
Its an angry world slowly getting angrier and solving issues is being thrown out the door, being replaced by anger and picking the "right" team to be in.
 
The only important thing to remember is that you're not wrong to ask questions and have an opinion. There's a very weird thing going on in the present-day Western world, and the lack of tolerance from everyone is unbelievable. I've always been liberal, left leaning, but it's hard to square myself with that position these days. There's nothing liberal about the left anymore.
 
The only important thing to remember is that you're not wrong to ask questions and have an opinion. There's a very weird thing going on in the present-day Western world, and the lack of tolerance from everyone is unbelievable. I've always been liberal, left leaning, but it's hard to square myself with that position these days. There's nothing liberal about the left anymore.

Yeah no having an opinion that other human beings are imps, demons, rats or whatever is wrong however you want to slice it.
 
The only important thing to remember is that you're not wrong to ask questions and have an opinion. There's a very weird thing going on in the present-day Western world, and the lack of tolerance from everyone is unbelievable. I've always been liberal, left leaning, but it's hard to square myself with that position these days. There's nothing liberal about the left anymore.
I am in the same boat. I was very left leaning but the last few years made me question a lot of things and I am now fully convinced that leftists are just as dangerous as rightists. I think it got absolutely out of control and ironically the freedom of speech is at it's worst levels it's been for decades. You can hardly say anything nowadays because you will 100% offend some group. There obviously are a lot of valid concerns regarding the gender topic but a lot of people seem to ignore that in order to be politically correct or in fear to be seen as transphobic and get cancelled by the radical left which is sad to see.
 
I always think too much gets mixed into these discussions. Take the OP as an example, it quotes some horrible tweets by Rowling and highlights an important issue, but is then put into a thread with a title "Transgender rights discussion".

The OP wasn't even about rights, it didn't mention rights at all. But framing it about rights pushes the conversation in a particular way - I mean, who can be against equal rights?

The conversation isn't really about rights, because I'm not sure anyone has any rights that a transgender person doesn't have (happy to be corrected here). The conversation is really about privilege, and should society afford certain privileges to particilar people so that they feel equal to others - and is privilege required in certain instances to achieve equality.

Whatever your views are, it is a fascinating discussion in that context, even if that means you have to ignore those being deliberately provocative.
 
I am in the same boat. I was very left leaning but the last few years made me question a lot of things and I am now fully convinced that leftists are just as dangerous as rightists. I think it got absolutely out of control and ironically the freedom of speech is at it's worst levels it's been for decades. You can hardly say anything nowadays because you will 100% offend some group. There obviously are a lot of valid concerns regarding the gender topic but a lot of people seem to ignore that in order to be politically correct or in fear to be seen as transphobic and get cancelled by the radical left which is sad to see.
Would you mind sharing an example of something you think you should be allowed to say but are no longer allowed?
 
The only important thing to remember is that you're not wrong to ask questions and have an opinion. There's a very weird thing going on in the present-day Western world, and the lack of tolerance from everyone is unbelievable. I've always been liberal, left leaning, but it's hard to square myself with that position these days. There's nothing liberal about the left anymore.

What exactly are you referring to here, concerning this thread? Please be specific.
 
Would you mind sharing an example of something you think you should be allowed to say but are no longer allowed?
If we stick solely to the transgender topic, good luck saying "You are born either male or female and no plastic surgery will change that" publicly.
 
I always think too much gets mixed into these discussions. Take the OP as an example, it quotes some horrible tweets by Rowling and highlights an important issue, but is then put into a thread with a title "Transgender rights discussion".

The OP wasn't even about rights, it didn't mention rights at all. But framing it about rights pushes the conversation in a particular way - I mean, who can be against equal rights?

The conversation isn't really about rights, because I'm not sure anyone has any rights that a transgender person doesn't have (happy to be corrected here). The conversation is really about privilege, and should society afford certain privileges to particilar people so that they feel equal to others - and is privilege required in certain instances to achieve equality.

Whatever your views are, it is a fascinating discussion in that context, even if that means you have to ignore those being deliberately provocative.

The thread title was changed recently as it was originally specific to Rowling's comments ('JK Rowling TERF and transphobic' or something to that effect was the original title).
 
The thread title was changed recently as it was originally specific to Rowling's comments ('JK Rowling TERF and transphobic' or something to that effect was the original title).

Ah well that makes sense. Shows how infrequently I'm in and out these days.
 
If we stick solely to the transgender topic, good luck saying "You are born either male or female and no plastic surgery will change that" publicly.
You know it’s not illegal to say that? You will be challenged though, because people refer not to “biological sex” but “gender” which itself is a social construct indicating the role we play in society.
 
You know it’s not illegal to say that? You will be challenged though, because people refer not to “biological sex” but “gender” which itself is a social construct indicating the role we play in society.
I am aware it is not illegal to say and it will not get anyone saying that jailed but I think you know what I meant. You can say it but at the same time you really cannot.
 
I am aware it is not illegal to say and it will not get anyone saying that jailed but I think you know what I meant. You can say it but at the same time you really cannot.
But you did? And we’re discussing it?
 
Isn't like the whole point of the mutants in X-Men that they're an allegory for racism or general bigotry?
Begone vile Satan! My righteousness casts you and your arguments based on facts from this Earth!
 
If we stick solely to the transgender topic, good luck saying "You are born either male or female and no plastic surgery will change that" publicly.
You think that's bad, try saying that you're English in public.
 
But you did? And we’re discussing it?
It's a completely different environment compared to (social) media or other much more public channels. There are plenty of cases like this https://wgme.com/news/local/usm-stu...rofessor-says-only-two-biological-sexes-exist which I just find completely absurd.

This below sums it up nicely:
"It's just not something you say out loud, especially with the current environment and stuff like that,” USM student Jalen Charles said. “It's something you should really keep to yourself."
 
If we stick solely to the transgender topic, good luck saying "You are born either male or female and no plastic surgery will change that" publicly.

You are born male or female but plastic surgery has changed it for two people I know. You wouldnt be able to tell if you met them. Both seriously great young men. If you tried to argue with them that they were still female you would cause them some distress because they have both been down a long torturous path of personal confusion, depression, guilt and a host of other emotions to get to who they are now. Add in the years of hormone treatment and the major surgeries. Both truely believed they should have been male and now after many years are able to be who they feel they should be. I dont understand why anyone would want to say that to them or push that angle on them. Its wrong, saying it publicly is also wrong.
They are now both Men.
 
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It's a completely different environment compared to (social) media or other much more public channels. There are plenty of cases like this https://wgme.com/news/local/usm-stu...rofessor-says-only-two-biological-sexes-exist which I just find completely absurd.

This below sums it up nicely:
The thing is though, he’s a professor and the university will have a position on these things. Gender is an identity and most universities have strict guidelines around equity and equality.

It’s 2023, the distinction between biological sex and social gender has long been established. For a person of authority and trust in a University to be contrarian and denies a minority of his students their identity - it’s understanding that his students were upset and they protested his words, as is their right to.

Out of interest, why do you feel your right to deny the existence of social genders over biological sex is more important than the rights of someone who feels the brain that was coupled with their body before birth wasn’t the correct match and instead they wish to live as their non cis-gender?
 
The thing is though, he’s a professor and the university will have a position on these things. Gender is an identity and most universities have strict guidelines around equity and equality.

It’s 2023, the distinction between biological sex and social gender has long been established. For a person of authority and trust in a University to be contrarian and denies a minority of his students their identity - it’s understanding that his students were upset and they protested his words, as is their right to.

Out of interest, why do you feel your right to deny the existence of social genders over biological sex is more important than the rights of someone who feels the brain that was coupled with their body before birth wasn’t the correct match and instead they wish to live as their non cis-gender?
In that particular case it was "two biological sexes exist" which caused a controversy.

People can live their lives however they want as long as it makes them happy, who am I to judge, it doesn't bother me at all. What does bother me is that as I said, freedom to express your opinion (unless it obviously fully complies with the "norm") is severely limited nowadays. Anything you say can get you fired from the job or become a target of cancel culture. Someone saying "there are only 2 genders", "transgender men should not be allowed to compete in women sport and vice-versa", or simply thinking that some of those infinite amount of genders are ridiculous (mirrorgender, duragender, condigender etc) should not cause a controversy because it's an opinion after all, just as "right" as someone who thinks otherwise. Anyway, don't want to go offtopic any further.
 
If we stick solely to the transgender topic, good luck saying "You are born either male or female and no plastic surgery will change that" publicly.

Yes, if you say that you're in danger of everyone fawning over you, and someone making an eight part podcast series about how cool you are and how the trans activists are witch hunting you, all the while deliberately not covering all your vile shit.

Wouldn't want that.
 
In that particular case it was "two biological sexes exist" which caused a controversy.

People can live their lives however they want as long as it makes them happy, who am I to judge, it doesn't bother me at all. What does bother me is that as I said, freedom to express your opinion (unless it obviously fully complies with the "norm") is severely limited nowadays. Anything you say can get you fired from the job or become a target of cancel culture. Someone saying "there are only 2 genders", "transgender men should not be allowed to compete in women sport and vice-versa", or simply thinking that some of those infinite amount of genders are ridiculous (mirrorgender, duragender, condigender etc) should not cause a controversy because it's an opinion after all, just as "right" as someone who thinks otherwise. Anyway, don't want to go offtopic any further.

People get sex and gender mixed up. There are more than 2 genders. the definition of gender in the dictionary explains it well.
 
I am now fully convinced that leftists are just as dangerous as rightists.
Remind who's in power around the world again? Someone being radically left on Twitter is clearly not as dangerous as the borderline fascists politicians in power in places like the US and UK.
You can hardly say anything nowadays because you will 100% offend some group.
Bit of an exaggeration, no? How often do you feel limited in your ability to express your opinion. I can't even remember the last time it happened to me. But most of the stuff I talk about is football, work and alcohol anyway so it's hardly inflammatory.

You remind me vaguely of my mum who was distraught she couldn't use a term in Danish anymore because "it felt like her childhood and youth was taken from her as that's how they used to speak". If that's what you remember from your youth maybe you should've spend your time on more exciting stuff, mum.
 
They are NOT the same as self-identifiyers who make up a sexuality (im rhombosexual, which means im physically attracted to men whose cock resemblesa rhombus), die their hair purple and decide a week by week basis if they're cis or trans and insist their pronouns resemble Sooty casting a magic spell (zim/zam/zee)

Again, it's important that we distinguish between actual trans people and those who have grown out of (or maybe not) the student politics movement who have as much interest in changing gender as Uri Geller has in wooden spoons , but have hijacked trans rights with their "how dare you not accept I'm a fish" nonsense

There's nothing TERFY or transphobic to say people who have actually transitioned are not the same as people who self-declare a new (often completely imaginary) genders to win an argument on social media.

Same as I happily distinguish between those who are gay and those who announce they're dashflynsexual-fluid-queer simply because they want to post an argumentative Tweet.

How long would a man with an erection need to have self-identifed as a woman to gain access to a female bathroom? Would it have to pre-date the start of the stiffy? Minimum 15 mins buffer? Maybe it's an overnight thing? 48 hours maybe?

The real crime will be the TERF that reports to the store security officer that a man with a boner had just walked in. She can suck my vagina that I'm self-identifying as having until the end of this sentence.


Good grief...

For someone who supposedly wants to champion the rights of "actual" trans people, you sure do use a lot of ultra-conservative dog whistles and bigoted rhetoric to state that. It's absolutely not the kind of language that I would associate with an LGBTQ ally, ever. It seems more like what you'd find in the most hysterical of Daily Mail comments sections.

I'd definitely like to see some examples of these supposed faux-LGBTQ cosplayers and their imaginary sexualities and genders though. Have you got any?