Sancho won’t return to Man Utd until he's ready - Way too much inappropriate speculation.

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For the MH crowd here. If playing for United started his mental health issue, wouldn't be good for everyone (including himself) if, you know, he's not playing for United? There are hundreds of other clubs out there that he may find peace and happiness.
Yes, environmental issues can play a part but mental illness is much deeper than that. It could go as far back as a childhood trauma, prenatal damage or a number of other things. It only takes a trigger to set it off.

Mental illness is a disease. It can't be cured by changing jobs or moving locations. It's like saying you can stop cancer by moving house. No matter where you go or what yoh do it will still be there.

Some mental illnesses have been linked to abnormal functioning of nerve cell circuits or pathways that connect particular brain regions. Like many other diseases, Mental illnesses can also be heredity.

The biggest problem with MH is mockery thats attached to it as well as the amount of people who claim to suffer from it but don't. It dilutes the seriousness of the illness and makes those who do suffer from it hide it until they either kill themselves or eventually seek help.
 
Has anyone even said he has a mental illness? I thought Ten Hag said he wasn't physically or mentally ready despite being good at the very start of the pre-season and start of our season. It could just be he isn't putting the same effort in? Bit disillusioned? Slight injury? Loss of confidence, not sure why people jump to mentally ill
 
This thread is like Wimbledon Common, full of Wombles.
 
Butthurt, really? My butt sure felt something reading that.

I agree he's not been great, I just don't think it requires any venom. Which is present here and much worse in the Rashford thread. Nobody is against a reasonable discussion, but the hysterics, bile and ridiculous hate come from a lack of patience and an inability to take a longer view.
I would agree wholeheartedly with this. It’s just about supporting the club and supporting the player. I don’t get all the ‘hate’ our own fans give our own players.
My butt however, has no thoughts or feelings on the matter. :D
 
1. The euro's happened over 2 years go, which saka and rashford received the same level of abuse which they've managed to move on from

2. Sleeping problems does not equate to being mentally ill

3. Sancho is not the first footballer to take time out away from social media. It's a dangerous precedent to allude to someone being mentally ill just because they've stopped logging into Instagram. For example Maguire does not use social media because he does not want to receive abuse, does not mean he is mentally ill.

4. Many players from the past have been taken out of the squad for many different reasons, for example Rooney has been taken out of the squad to train in the U.S.A through fat camp when he was unfit and low on confidence

5. ETH explaining he's not physical and mentally can be interpreted as him simply being unfit and low on confidence and the manager is unwilling to carry him in the team while being out of form.
This post is like being taken back to an awareness of mental health issues from the 1990’s.
 
I think mental health is prevalent in todays society.

Many teenagers face it and the majority face some form of mental health issues in their lifetime, when I lost my dad I had a good few months to a year. I have friends that have chronic depression and they're normal people but it's their thought patterns that often lead them there which is why they end up going to things like CBT.

The point here isn't to say "we have sob cases" it's to look at ways to promote wellness, and get the best out of players. Football clubs, workplaces need to adjust to the 21st century, these kind of issues are well known now.

Guess what? it's always been there, it was in the 1980s with drinking culture in football, it was in the 90s, in the 2000s but people just didn't speak about it, now it is there. It's the reason sometimes players don't recover and you get players that just diminish.

Football clubs aren't stuck in pre-social media days where players got more abuse on them than ever. What do you do every time a player has mental health issues? transfer list them and say "this ones broken"? because you'd be doing that every season.

When a final is decided on penalties, after a bad run of form it affects players differently. You need to get players tools to deal with it.

If it's just his mentality (Sancho) on being a top level athlete then that just needs to be engrained in him. Through what to do in right moments of the game, positive reinforcement because as a player and technically he has everything.

Not sure what this camp is for, to get him ready physically, or alter how he reacts in games, no idea its speculation.
Great points. I guess it's always happened at all clubs, nobody has robots playing for them.

I don't know if I'm reading too much into the nuance between the words 'mentality' and 'mental(ly)'.

Mentality to me suggests more of a confidence loss rather than something you could go to a doctor and be formally diagnosed with.

I imagine depression would be a common condition for players who feel they're not achieving or are struggling after a long term injury.

We've always had players with very public and complex personalities - Best, McGrath, Eric, Robbo and who can forget the scummy tabloid photo of Roy Keane with an anger management book on Ireland's ill fated world Cup.

Then outside our club, look at Merson, Tony Adams,

I admit I did feel a bit of wariness that maybe the club would look to move him on somehow as the money and stakes involved are so high that they may see ruthlessness as the only option.

I don't agree though and think this is a novel and decent way to tailor a treatment for him, that alone should give him a lift.

So true that mental health isn't a new thing at all, just in the same way soldiers were shot due to 'lack of moral fibre' or institutionalised for 'shellshock' in WWI.

I even see it now in the Muslim community where suicide is really not talked about. Business failures and inflation have caused a lot of despair just the same as in every walk of life and it's a global tragedy when statistically more people die by their own hand than by war now, and that's never happened before since such records ever existed.

Really hope everyone gets behind him because if he'd broken his leg (God forbid) we wouldn't be launching into a load of criticism.

I also do think having such a huge contract at such an early stage is a factor for his problems imo.
 
That looks fecking miserable. If the main priority is mental health I don’t see how taking him away from friends and family to train in the Netherlands on his own will help turn things round.

Maybe it's not that serious with mental health but attitude, and its a fat loss and fitness boot camp....
 
I don't know if he's having mental health issues obviously, but my take is this;

the step up physically in the PL was bigger than he expected, and that's impacted his performances and now his confidence also

being out of the team means he's not going to get too many chances to prove himself.. which again compounds the problem and will likely impact his confidence even further

on the current trajectory he's not going to make it here, so something needed to change

ETH has recognised all this and sent him away to work on his strength and stamina, and of course being a forward in an ETH team these attributes are important because you need to press

given we're stacked at LW compared to any other position, and had the world cup, we do have the opportunity to do this.. so I think it's a good idea personally

whether it helps or not, only time will tell
 
The football forums can't even mange decent football discussions. Possible mental health was always going to be an overreach for a lot of you.

Majority of people aren't ready to have reasonable discussions about anything involving mental health. Far too easily triggered. That phrase encapsulates infinite potential issues, amd since we don't really know anything specific there's little progress to be made.

Speculation is one thing, getting angry or defensive or forming concrete opinions based on speculation is pointless.

Let's hope whatever is affecting Sancho is not too serious, and let's also hope that people don't now forever label him as being soft or damaged or whatever else people normally do.
 
For the MH crowd here. If playing for United started his mental health issue, wouldn't be good for everyone (including himself) if, you know, he's not playing for United? There are hundreds of other clubs out there that he may find peace and happiness.

Not many would give him 350k/wk though.
The Caf loves a label. Are they the new Ole inners or outers?
 
Yes, environmental issues can play a part but mental illness is much deeper than that. It could go as far back as a childhood trauma, prenatal damage or a number of other things. It only takes a trigger to set it off.

Mental illness is a disease. It can't be cured by changing jobs or moving locations. It's like saying you can stop cancer by moving house. No matter where you go or what yoh do it will still be there.

Some mental illnesses have been linked to abnormal functioning of nerve cell circuits or pathways that connect particular brain regions. Like many other diseases, Mental illnesses can also be heredity.

The biggest problem with MH is mockery thats attached to it as well as the amount of people who claim to suffer from it but don't. It dilutes the seriousness of the illness and makes those who do suffer from it hide it until they either kill themselves or eventually seek help.

What are you talking about? If the job or location they're moving into is the cause, or at least trigger it, then you don't just stay there or still doing that job. Move to other places or changing job IS the first step, then deal with the root cause.

For years, he's fine doing the same job at Dortmund. And now IF playing for United cause/trigger his MH, then there's a first step solution for that.
 
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The Caf loves a label. Are they the new Ole inners or outers?

fanboi, matchgoers, armchairs, haters, etc. They're littered all over the Caf.

Sorry if that label makes people feel uncomfortable. I won't use that anymore.
 
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What are you talking about? If the job or location they're moving into is the cause, or at least trigger it, then you don't just stay there or still doing that job. Move to other places or changing job IS the first step, then deal with the root cause.

For years, he's fine doing the same job at Dortmund. And now IF playing for United cause/trigger his MH, then there's a first step solution for that.
It's not the cause. It could be adding to it but it's not the cause.

Mental Health follows you, you can't magic it away by finding a new job or moving to a different country. It's an incurable disease.

It's like having a heart condition or diabetes. It's staggering how many people don't understand this.
 
For the MH crowd here. If playing for United started his mental health issue, wouldn't be good for everyone (including himself) if, you know, he's not playing for United? There are hundreds of other clubs out there that he may find peace and happiness.

Not many would give him 350k/wk though.
Good job he's not on £350k a week then isn't it!!
 
I can't quite make up my mind if this is extremely weird, extremely worrying or extremely reassuring.

A good player who has to nip off to another country to train on his own with some expert in order to rediscover his physical and mental form?
I can't off the top of my head think of a single similar case. What's this, a Rocky movie? You wonder if they're just soft-glossing some kind of really bad situation. And then you kind of hope that it's actually EtH having the sort of extraordinary visionary insight to do something so unconventional and that it'll end up fixing a player who maybe has some mental stuff to overcome, and needs to work on some physical stuff to get to his best level. In other words, that it is what they present it as being. That would awesome, and extraordinary.
 
I can't quite make up my mind if this is extremely weird, extremely worrying or extremely reassuring.

I think I would tend to be in this camp, I fear it might be ETH's way of saying, "you are no use to me as you are lad, go off on your own with one of my specialists and when you come back you will know what its all about and all the words to the company song"... we all attack together and defend together!
 
This post is like being taken back to an awareness of mental health issues from the 1990’s.

Right if you say so. Too bad you ain't got any counter points to make a case for Sancho suffering from mental health instead of simply not being up to task to play for us.
 
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Right if you say so. Too bad you ain't got any counter points to make a case for Sancho suffering from mental health instead of simply not being up to task to play for us.
It’s strange you give Sancho abuse yet you won’t have a bad thing said about Maguire.

The definition of an agenda against a player if there ever was.
 
Right if you say so. Too bad you ain't got any counter points to make a case for Sancho suffering from mental health instead of simply not being up to task to play for us.
Get over yourself. I didn’t say that Sancho does or doesn’t have mental health, nor did I make any comment about his performance. Your notion that the Euros was 2 years ago and that Rashford and Saka coping fine is evidence that perhaps Sancho doesn’t have mental health issues is an archaic view of mental health. The fact that that even formed a basis for your assessment of Sancho is what my comment was about. I sincerely hope you educate yourself, which is regardless of Sancho.
 
Won't be long and this lot will have us holding candlelight vigils at old Trafford every time a player gets demoted.

I wonder if Ten Hag is secretly having him retrained as a RB/RWB?! :wenger:
I think that is possible. The Dumfries interest suggests they want more offense on that right side to pair with Antony. So maybe this is endurance training to see if he can do it. Or that plus intensive defensive training because the moment Dalot comes off the pitch that right side dips precipitously in defense.
 
I'm no expert, far from itn but are some of you confusing a poor attitude with mental health issues.
 
Well, at least he's not injured. Brings up a whole new definition of being a sick note to what we are used to :wenger:
 
It’s strange you give Sancho abuse yet you won’t have a bad thing said about Maguire.

The definition of an agenda against a player if there ever was.

I''m sorry when did Sancho receive bomb threats and people making countless videos mocking his performances and making meme's out of him? I must have missed it, please refresh my memory....
 
Get over yourself. I didn’t say that Sancho does or doesn’t have mental health, nor did I make any comment about his performance. Your notion that the Euros was 2 years ago and that Rashford and Saka coping fine is evidence that perhaps Sancho doesn’t have mental health issues is an archaic view of mental health. The fact that that even formed a basis for your assessment of Sancho is what my comment was about. I sincerely hope you educate yourself, which is regardless of Sancho.

I mentioned the time period because the poster tried to link racial abuse which was shared through 3 players to mental illness. There's a host of black players who been on the receiving end of racial abuse through the last decade, they did not suddenly develop mental illness and I can reel of the long list of names if you want. But If you've undergone a case study linking racial abuse on the terraces to mental illness let me know so I can ''educate'' myself
 
Aren't both linked, the guy has clearly been underwhelming and the size of our club has likely brought this mental issue on far more than had he been cruising at dortmund

They are nothing alike.

See Stephen "tWitch" Boss for a barely-day-old example of how mentality and mental health dont need to exist in the same stratosphere.
 
He earns over 300k pw. We are a billon in debt and apparently can't afford to bring in the striker we desperately need. This is in part due to the outlay on Sancho who has been an absolute dud for us so far. He needs to sort himself out and fast. Maybe he will come back stronger after this reset but if he doesn't he needs to be moved on, end of.

All this compassion required etc is based on pure speculation. Nobody in the know has said he has mental health issues. So I'll save the compassion until im told otherwise.

This is very bluecollar welldriller mentality of you.
 
Our background checks on him didn’t pick up any issues then?

We literally had years to undertake them.

The fact no other club contested the transfer speaks volumes though.

We literally had a two year free run at him.
 
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