it's particularly hilarious how silent the US is on the matter considering they love parroting the whole 'the only democracy in the Middle East' line.
Won't be that hillarious for the US if you look at Fertile Crescent Trends. The US has 350 million Arab/Persian/etc within the region, and a hardline Israel which is as autocratic within as it has been, for a while, without, is impossible to defend. That's why the NYT has turned its back on it, and also why the US regime can now be heard to criticise, albeit lowly, the Israeli state, not the nation, for the first time in basically forever. It's not the special state, re geopolitics, it was. Things have changed in that region and it's only going one way. Israel to North Korean status if it cannot sort itself out internally because the Arab Leage has basically shat colonialism out and is playing a very, very, rigid game between Russia, US, EU, and China. It isn't budging, or simply crumbling, as in the days of old. Its population, too large, too young, too well educated, and far too well-aware of their own importance (also armed to the teeth).
Think about it. US has Saudi/Egypt and a few others. More than happy (not publicly) to allow US to have arms/capacity here and there, and their populations are many times (as their economies) that of Israel. What do you do? If US state planner and see Israel going all anti-itself as well as anti-Arab League? You'd tell it to turn around or feck it off, like South Africa, in the long terms until it does. The US' position in that region is not decided by Israel any more. It's Turkey, Iraq, Saudi, Oman, Gulf, generally, Syria (accepted back into Arab League), Jordan, Iran, etc. Israel is alienating itself against the one state that has continuously used veto power to stop it from becoming a complete pariah.
When Thomas Friedman, if you know your Israel/Palestine politics, is saying "we can no longer pretend that Israel is not colonizing the West Bank", you know the US is altering its long, long, held policy toward that state (and because of that state, and no one else). The US told them not to do it. Literally. WB encroachment. It causes problems in the Arab world which is quick becoming the next most important bloc (Arab League) in the newly emerging world.