He can't possibly stay at a club that doesn't want you. No other clubs are coming in for him other than the one being managed by his former coach -- who I am 100% has spoken to him and pitched him his vision of how he will be used at United. And a vision that will maximise Frenkie's talents and not one that restricts him like in Barca.
What's the natural conclusion then?
My concern isn't whether we can get Frenkie -- its more like there is a steep learning curve in the PL. Both Pep and Klopp had long runways. I am not sure United fans will afford ETH one as long.
Except he can? He has a multi-year contract with Barca.
I really don't think he's as convinced to join us as everyone in here seems to think he is. Few things to consider: Messi is owed money, still left Barca, despite them wanting to keep him, unlike De Jong. The reports of his constant communication with ETH have dried up (which is a given, I highly doubt ETH has the time to be speaking to his old mate everyday when he's trying to prepare a team for the upcoming season in a foreign country tour)
Also - he may have told ETH that he was open to it at the start, but just like any individual with any potential occupation change, he may have considered and is no longer as convinced.
Simply put - if he wanted to be here, I doubt he would not have been already.