I perfectly understand where you are coming from. All of us share your pain/disappointment, hard times for us. Optimism is not a wrong thing, "blind" optimism is wrong, thats what we had at the start of last season when most of our base jumped for a title tilt dissing pool, while every logic and metric was screaming against it. But this time is not blind optimism, just logic.
Our owners took some terrible decisions. Hiring LVG was wrong, extending Mourinho was wrong, signing OLE fulltime so soon was the worst thing. Its not just our owners, all our ex-players and super pundits are terrible as well constantly picking sides and showing favoritisms. They are responsible for the complete mess as well. I can't believe OLE was kept that long at the job and its on as much our ex-pros as the owners.
But for all the bad things our owners are, they are definitely not skint. That means, if we get the board fixed and the manager right it wont take us long to get back to the top again. Getting the right manager is the 1st step and I think with ETH we have taken the 1st step well. This guy builds his team, has a sound structure and in short seems to know what he is doing and not outdated. Will he be able to challenge Pep/Klopp, not possible atleast not yet. But he can challenge lego-pep and Tuchel. Conte is a beast of a manager and luckily for us he is stuck with Spurs which makes challenging him a possibility too. So yeah, you can quote me later, we will be up there with the rest of the best (other than City/Pool) and thats where our expectations should lie realistically.
A very good response, one without simply shooting down others opinion with ridicule and laughter! You won't be a newbie for long.
Having said that, we disagree on the fact hiring the right manager is the first step, we need to fix the board first and from what little we've seen so far, I'm yet to be convinced - we've appointed a manager (a very good one, one that I desperately wanted) that had worked under an excellent team, a director of football who was in charge of player purchases, while we seem to have had no clue on targets until Ten Hag arrived - this points to us having not changed, giving too much say to managers in recruitment.
And I think you're downplaying Spurs more than a little here, they're significantly improving their squad under a very good manager, yes its Spurs and things could go pear-shaped, but they're a club that are doing things the correct way - hiring a dof and manager with a similar philosophy, meaning the players they sign will likely be useful for the next manger.
Chelsea have new owners and haven't long won the CL, we're a long way off them.
Arsenal are Arsenal, but that still leaves for teams above us, that's without factoring in teams that were closer to us last season improving.
I'm hoping my reservations are incorrect, but I guess we'll see.