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Was just thinking on those linesThere's been more bans in this thread than Suarez has ever received.
Was just thinking on those linesThere's been more bans in this thread than Suarez has ever received.
Excal on such a topic even I wouldn't WUM.
I am British with a Pakistani background. I'm also old enough to have been called P*** in the late 70s/80s.
If my Asian friends try to use the P word affectionately with me I tell them where I stand with it. If another Asian tries to offend me by using the P word or calling me a cocunut/choc ice (yes Asians use that term too) then its racist abuse where I stand.
It is not only offensive to non-white people but it is offensive to white people too, as it implies being white is bad. On that note I don't stand for Asians calling white people honky, cracker or any phrases either as that is plain head shaking hypocrisy.
The behavior by some of their fans, their manager, former players during that whole period was absolutely ridiculous.The negrito defence was hilarious. It never held any water, and as far as I remember, wasn't even mentioned in the report. It seems to have been invented entirely by Liverpool fans as a pre-emptive defence.
Why is paki offensive? Found that strange when I was studying in Uk. Pak means pure, Pakistani means the land of the pure, so how can paki be offensive?
Why is paki offensive? Found that strange when I was studying in Uk. Pak means pure, Pakistani means the land of the pure, so how can paki be offensive?
Because it's used in a derogatory way towards people of Pakistani and <b>Indinan</b> origin.
They key word here.Intent. And language is more nuanced than your description.
Intent. And language is more nuanced than your description.
Because it's used in a derogatory way towards people of Pakistani and Indinan origin.
But its not derogatory? If someone would call me a curry eating bastard, I might get offended but if the word means pure I dont get why I am suppose to feel abused.
But its not derogatory? If someone would call me a curry eating bastard, I might get offended but if the word means pure I dont get why I am suppose to feel abused.
When used as a term of abuse, you can bet your arse that the person saying it is not intending to remind someone that they hail from the land of the pure.
Not to mention that's as likely to be used against someone from Bangladesh, Sri Lanka or India as it is against someone who is actually of Pakistani descent.
Because it'd usually be followed by a cnut, prick, bastard or some such slur and said in an aggressive way.
But its not derogatory? If someone would call me a curry eating bastard, I might get offended but if the word means pure I dont get why I am suppose to feel abused.
The average person using that epithet would probably have no idea that it means "pure" and it certainly wouldn't be intended as a compliment.
But its not derogatory? If someone would call me a curry eating bastard, I might get offended but if the word means pure I dont get why I am suppose to feel abused.
Tryin' to run game on a hero...Shame on Negrito.
Yes but every pakistani will know it, its like if I insult a brit. by calling him handsome. No matter my intent, I would find it strange if he starts taking offense at the word handsome when he knows what it means.
Even if the insult is intended, it doesnt mean that one should take it? If he adds a swear word to it then ofcourse it makes sense to get mad at the swear word but not the word that is complimentary in its meaning.
And its not like the people using it have a different meaningfor it or if they do no one has been able to explain it to me
There is a region in Africa named after the Niger river, If you called a black guy a name that may suggests he comes from there, I assure you that he will not jump on the net to find out what that means in that local's dialect.Yes but every pakistani will know it, its like if I insult a brit. by calling him handsome. No matter my intent, I would find it strange if he starts taking offense at the word handsome when he knows what it means.
Even if the insult is intended, it doesnt mean that one should take it? If he adds a swear word to it then ofcourse it makes sense to get mad at the swear word but not the word that is complimentary in its meaning.
And its not like the people using it have a different meaningfor it or if they do no one has been able to explain it to me
Can understand why they would get mad atleast.
But then you should be insulted by the insult not feel racially abused.
Anyway I will drop it, couldnt understand it in my time in UK. Doubt I will now.
It's what Gnash originally said to disciplinary panel isn't it?
I suppose it's vaguely possible he didn't know and was trying to be friendly after Evra got agitated about being accidentally kicked ('a normal foul').
But, I don't believe a word of it. And he needs to keep his trap shut (which'd be safest all round,really).
The best way I can describe a white British person calling a Pakistani person a Paki, would be if I were to call a stranger in the street a fecking cnut for no other reason than they happened to be the closest person to me at the time.
There is a region in Africa named after the Niger river, If you called a black guy a name that may suggests he comes from there, I assure you that he will not jump on the net to find out what that means in that local's dialect.
The same applies.
But you're missing the point buddy. When someone calls someone a paki, even if that is where they are from, context is everything. If you're in a conversation and someone uses it to describe you without intent to insult, of course the world inherently isn't insulting. However in the majority of cases, If someone was calling you a paki it'd be as to suggest that it's a negative thing to be one.
I do get that but then whats the english meaning of the word? Collin said its like calling someone a cnut.
Guess its just one of those things that become taboo and you have to experience it to know why.
...a derogatory term for a person from or whose ancestry is of South Asia, particularly if they are assumed to be a Muslim.
I do get that but then whats the english meaning of the word? Collin said its like calling someone a cnut.
Guess its just one of those things that become taboo and you have to experience it to know why.
It's like calling someone Chinese a Chink, or Japanese a Nip, or a Frenchman a Frog. The words themselves don't have to be bad words for them to be used negatively.I do get that but then whats the english meaning of the word? Collin said its like calling someone a cnut.
Guess its just one of those things that become taboo and you have to experience it to know why.
He had been in England for a year by then, following a spell at Ajax. If he was straight off the plane from Uruguay you just might be willing to give him some benefit of the doubt. But the fact that, after several years living there, he was apparently unaware addressing a black player as "negro" in Northern Europe might be misconstrued stretches credibility. The fact he said it specifically to a black player (even though the term is used for all races according to him) in a heated argument in the most volatile fixture in English football suggests he's an idiot if he expects anyone to buy his excuse.
Guess its just one of those things that become taboo and you have to experience it to know why.
I do get that but then whats the english meaning of the word? Collin said its like calling someone a cnut.
Guess its just one of those things that become taboo and you have to experience it to know why.
Think of it like this - do you not find the fact that they think they can use the word as an insult disrespectful? I'm proud to be of indian origin but it's the fact that someone thinks they can insult me for it that riles me.
That's one 'l' in Colin, sonny...
It's like calling someone Chinese a Chink, or Japanese a Nip, or a Frenchman a Frog. The words themselves don't have to be bad words for them to be used negatively.
Paki is a hurtful word in the UK, because it is often spat with vitriol, occasionally accompanied by a neanderthal's size 10 boot.[/QUOTE]
Good point.