Agreed. They’ve basically put them selves in a difficult position because even if they keep ETH he isn’t going to trust them and their relationship hasn’t exactly got of to the best of starts. They’ve left him completely in the dark and refuse to say his name like when they thanked everyone after the FA cup final win.
They've already fecked their first big decision basically.
As you've pointed out if they keep him now they've broken the relationship with him, also why wait this long? If he's the right man it should be clear (heh) already. Keeping him after so much deliberation is hardly a ringing endorsement or sign of decisiveness / a plan.
If he's to leave, then the decision should have been made long ago with a successor already lined up. Waiting until after the FA Cup made sense so to not distract our players/fans but it should have been announced fairly immediately afterwards.
Their story about the FA Cup win not factoring into their decision is quite clearly bullshit as well, as it's the only thing that explains they would have waited so long.
Alternatively, they genuinely believe it makes sense to wait until after the FA Cup to start 'assessing' which is fecking mental considering the state of the manager market and the fact there is a major tournament this summer. The 'truth' being the actual truth is genuinely the worst possible scenario in terms of highlighting their incompetence, lack of a plan and lack of decisiveness. Woodward-esque stuff, although even he never waited until June to announce a new manager.
Meanwhile our players and fans are kept in the dark going into the summer after the high of winning the FA Cup, which should have given us some momentum, belief and unity going into next year.
Despite all his big talk (and spending much of his time telling off/trying to sack regular staff) SJR seems to be flapping with regards to the big decision.
I honestly believe at this point they have already done Ten Hag dirty worse than Woody did to Moyes/Van Gaal (at least he just ripped the band aid off) and that includes if he stays.