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I got to see her twice in three days, Thursday and yesterday.

I'm utterly blown away by it all.

My brain's still processing it. I cried, I sang, I screamed, I shouted, I danced, I looked on in sheer astonishment.

The whole production is insane and her voice is out of this world. It's an experience i wish everyone understood and could enjoy, I want everyone to get that feeling I got doing something they enjoy no matter what it is becuase it's electric and so wholesome.
It’s weird you have to convince people who get religious ecstasy watching a live football match that attending a Swift concert is a similar experience - except it’s cathartic and empowering and healing in a lot of ways.

It's definitely a fun thread :lol:

What I genuinely don't get among the "haters" (for lack of a better word) in this thread is where the concern is. Popular thing is popular, but how does it hurt you? Are you concerned that all quality music will disappear in five years? Can you not avoid her, because she is constantly played on the radio? Are you annoyed that many people have poor taste? Or are you frustrated that her success is unwarranted?
They are angry that Taylor will never touch their tiny peepees.
 

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It’s weird you have to convince people who get religious ecstasy watching a live football match that attending a Swift concert is a similar experience - except it’s cathartic and empowering and healing in a lot of ways.
I celebrated that Amad’s goal against the Dippers as hard as anybody else, I don’t grovel and cry whenever I see him later though.

There’s something surreal in watching young girls (and going by this thread, adult men as well) absolutely broke down in her presence, it gives off a pretty cultish vibes tbh.
 

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I celebrated that Amad’s goal against the Dippers as hard as anybody else, I don’t grovel and cry whenever I see him later though.

There’s something surreal in watching young girls (and going by this thread, adult men as well) absolutely broke down in her presence, it gives off a pretty cultish vibes tbh.
It’s just joy, mate. If your Country won the World Cup, and then there was a celebration at a home stadium packed to the rafters with fans, you’d start to get near the sensation for these concertgoers. You also have to keep in miland there is almost zero bad behavior: no fights, no drunks, no vomit, no one trying to pickup other fans (average Age is probably around 18 or 20). It’s just joy, plus singing and dancing in a space that is largely free of the male gaze. Not sure why people can’t understand this.
 

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So I've got to become a Swiftie to experience winning a World Cup? Think I'd rather just pretend I'm French tà.
 

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I'm starting a new movement. I'm a Travisty.
 

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It’s just joy, mate. If your Country won the World Cup, and then there was a celebration at a home stadium packed to the rafters with fans, you’d start to get near the sensation for these concertgoers. You also have to keep in miland there is almost zero bad behavior: no fights, no drunks, no vomit, no one trying to pickup other fans (average Age is probably around 18 or 20). It’s just joy, plus singing and dancing in a space that is largely free of the male gaze. Not sure why people can’t understand this.
What on earth has any of that got to do with grown men screaming and crying watching a billionaire singing repetitive pop songs at a live show?

Plus you’re explaining all of this as though you’re talking to people who’ve never watched live music. I’m willing to bet everyone who’s posted in this thread has done so, multiple times.
 

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What on earth has any of that got to do with grown men screaming and crying watching a billionaire singing repetitive pop songs at a live show?

Plus you’re explaining all of this as though you’re talking to people who’ve never watched live music. I’m willing to bet everyone who’s posted in this thread has done so, multiple times.
Do grown men really cry and scream that much, though? It's mainly something teens/young adults do.

If you're talking about singing along, then yes, that's something everyone can do. It's pretty standard to do that if you go to a concert of an artist you like.
 

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Do grown men really cry and scream that much, though? It's mainly something teens/young adults do.

If you're talking about singing along, then yes, that's something everyone can do. It's pretty standard to do that if you go to a concert of an artist you like.
I’m definitely not talking about singing along. Read back up through the posts to see what we’re talking about. It feels a bit mean picking on an individual so I won’t tag him in. There could be very personal reasons why any one individual loses their shit at one of her shows. But there does seem to be a trend of people sharing clips on social media of complete and utter meltdowns. Which is definitely a little weird and cultish (which was @InfiniteBoredom ’s point)
 

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I’m definitely not talking about singing along. Read back up through the posts to see what we’re talking about. It feels a bit mean picking on an individual so I won’t tag him in. There could be very personal reasons why any one individual loses their shit at one of her shows. But there does seem to be a trend of people sharing clips on social media of complete and utter meltdowns. Which is definitely a little weird and cultish (which was @InfiniteBoredom ’s point)
Alright. While I would say (the poster in questions experience) that's a common response for younger audiences it's quite rare for adults. I wish I felt so strongly about these kind of things today as I could do when I was 15 or so, but I just do not. I think that sort of genuine reaction to something should be cherished rather than being labeled cultish.
 

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I’m definitely not talking about singing along. Read back up through the posts to see what we’re talking about. It feels a bit mean picking on an individual so I won’t tag him in. There could be very personal reasons why any one individual loses their shit at one of her shows. But there does seem to be a trend of people sharing clips on social media of complete and utter meltdowns. Which is definitely a little weird and cultish (which was @InfiniteBoredom ’s point)
I'm fascinated by the crying to be honest. Was it at a lyric? "Karma is the breeze in my hair on the weekend" or a musical crescendo? Or just the shared collective experience with all the teens?
 

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I'm fascinated by the crying to be honest. Was it at a lyric? "Karma is the breeze in my hair on the weekend" or a musical crescendo? Or just the shared collective experience with all the teens?
It was probably "Karma is the guy on the Chiefs" lyric. He's probably just thinking with his penis. It happens mate.
 

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Alright. While I would say (the poster in questions experience) that's a common response for younger audiences it's quite rare for adults. I wish I felt so strongly about these kind of things today as I could do when I was 15 or so, but I just do not. I think that sort of genuine reaction to something should be cherished rather than being labeled cultish.

Honestly I don't think it's cultish, or necessarily to be cherished, I just find it inexplicable to be honest. I'm not confused by a man crying, it's just the context. I'm obsessed by music, and I work in the industry. There are lyrics that do strike a chord. But I've listened to a lot of TS and it's bland. I did see a connect when my kids were 12 or 13 but I've seen my teen daughters outgrow Taylor Swift, so I'm bewildered.
 

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Honestly I don't think it's cultish, or necessarily to be cherished, I just find it inexplicable to be honest. I'm not confused by a man crying, it's just the context. I'm obsessed by music, and I work in the industry. There are lyrics that do strike a chord. But I've listened to a lot of TS and it's bland. I did see a connect when my kids were 12 or 13 but I've seen my teen daughters outgrow Taylor Swift, so I'm bewildered.
I can't speak for everyone, but I'd imagine it's less to do with hearing a specific lyric rather than the whole experience of being there with 60k people and singing along to songs that you love. I can see why people have strong reactions to that. Live music like that, at its best, is euphoric.
 

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Alright. While I would say (the poster in questions experience) that's a common response for younger audiences it's quite rare for adults. I wish I felt so strongly about these kind of things today as I could do when I was 15 or so, but I just do not. I think that sort of genuine reaction to something should be cherished rather than being labeled cultish.
For me, it’s the complete disconnect between the type of music she plays and this apparent hysterically emotional response. But I’m at the point now where I think I really need to stop trying to get my head around why people like her music and just accept that they do.
 

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I can't speak for everyone, but I'd imagine it's less to do with hearing a specific lyric rather than the whole experience of being there with 60k people and singing along to songs that you love. I can see why people have strong reactions to that.
Yeah, I get that. I get it more at football than music, (music is much more personal for me I think). But I still struggle. As it's the collective. I have taken my kids to gigs that they wanted to go see and I've never ever felt as far removed from being part of the collective.
 

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The very best thing about this thread is the angry ones who don't even know what they are in to.
Definitely a better thing than her music that’s for sure.

I’m confused by what this means. Maybe one of the angry ones like @Pogue Mahone can descriptor this mind-bending puzzle.
 

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It's not weird for an adult to connect with music emotionally. It's weird to connect while surrounded by children experiencing the same connection.
 

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For me, it’s the complete disconnect between the type of music she plays and this apparent hysterically emotional response. But I’m at the point now where I think I really need to stop trying to get my head around why people like her music and just accept that they do.
Age and gender are important here for me. She 'spoke' almost directly to my daughters when they were 14 and 15. To them and in general terms about their lives, especially their aspirations at 15.
 

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It's not weird for an adult to connect with music emotionally. It's weird to connect while surrounded by children experiencing the same connection.
I would say it’s also weird to respond to that emotional connection by having a meltdown but maybe that’s just me. I’ve felt fairly intense emotions at plenty of live music shows over the years but never felt even close to hysterical (even while taking industrial quantities of mind altering drugs).
 

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It's not weird for an adult to connect with music emotionally. It's weird to connect while surrounded by children experiencing the same connection.
Isn’t it similar to a father watching something like Star Wars with their son and they both like it?
 

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For me, it’s the complete disconnect between the type of music she plays and this apparent hysterically emotional response. But I’m at the point now where I think I really need to stop trying to get my head around why people like her music and just accept that they do.
Yeah, hard to do anything about that. Some things you like, some you don't. There's a lot of bands I don't get why they're so popular but I just don't care enough because it's not really worth it.
 

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Yeah, hard to do anything about that. Some things you like, some you don't. There's a lot of bands I don't get why they're so popular but I just don't care enough because it's not really worth it.
Yeah. Mostly it confuses me if there are peers whose music you almost always like but they collectively have a band that you just don't click with. Of course I can't think of an example now.
 

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It's not weird for an adult to connect with music emotionally. It's weird to connect while surrounded by children experiencing the same connection.
I don't see why this would be weird. There's tons of stuff where this would apply.
 

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Yeah. Mostly it confuses me if there are peers whose music you almost always like but they collectively have a band that you just don't click with. Of course I can't think of an example now.
U2 come to mind. Will never understand what anybody sees in them.