I didn't read your post as combative mate, but then that's probably because I come off the same always anyway
I am a big pusher of higher fps, I mean it's 2023 and we are getting generation upon generation that still fails to even make 60. However it's not the be all and end all, but then I can afford to be that way as I'll play this on PC.
For me, as I said, it's the discourse over buzzwords that annoys me. It's not even that they are a thing, it's that people argue about them without ever looking into what any of it actually means and if you are being led astray by hype bollocks. It's even more annoying when it's something like "oh CPU!" when you've literally bought a £450 console that is struggling to run a game that is, for all the nonsense around it being "new", an engine that is pretty old and broken and just had features added. By all means discuss, possibly even learn something, but just remember to take it all with a huge pinch of salt. (BTW I meant that in general, not specifically to you!)