NATO is a defensive alliance ffs. Nobody on this whole planet honestly believes that NATO under any circumstances would have invaded Russia preemptively. In fact, nobody believes that NATO would invade Russia under ANY circumstances.
It's like criticizing somebody for learning self defense. What is even Russia's problem with "NATO expansion"? "If you join NATO now, you rob us of the option of invading you, so unfortunately we have to do it immediately! Sorry, but the blame is on you!"
Jesus. Do you guys have any capacity for independent thinking at all? Start using your head.
The same defensive organisation that attacked and bombed Serbia, Bosnia and invaded Afghanistan and whose members invaded Iraq. Self defensive organisations set up to prevent Soviet expansion do not invade sovereign nations in the Middle East. To think that Russia would sit there and do nothing is naive. NATO was formed to deal with the perceived threat from the Soviet Union following WW2 or rather to guarantee a US military presence in Europe. The Soviet Union ceased to exist in 1991. There is no reason for NATO to even exist other than to facilitate a US military presence in Europe.
The fact is that NATO gave an undertaking not to expand into Europe. NATO were well aware of Russias concerns even if you are not.
With regard to your claim that NATO is a group of friends with no hostile intentions here's part of a report from Human Rights Watch regarding NATOs intervention in the former Yugoslavia.
conducted air attacks using cluster bombs near populated areas;
· attacked targets of questionable military legitimacy, including Serb Radio and Television, heating plants, and bridges;
· did not take adequate precautions in warning civilians of attacks;
· took insufficient precautions identifying the presence of civilians when attacking convoys and mobile targets; and
· caused excessive civilian casualties by not taking sufficient measures to verify that military targets did not have concentrations of civilians (such as at Korisa).
It concluded that while there was no evidence of war crimes the investigation did conclude that NATO violated international humanitarian law.
And then there is the bombing of Syria and NATO involvement in the illegal invasion of Iraq. In fact most of NATOs combat activity has been centred in the Middle East.
NATO are not the squeaky clean, defensive organisation you claim them to be. Independent thought is not about spouting propaganda from CCN it's about looking at both sides and certainly being sceptical of any reporting from the mainstream Western press and politicians. Neither have a particularly good record for reporting facts. I don't believe the bullshit being put out by the Russians either.
It's not a question of who's to blame but rather understanding why this has happened in the first place, something you seem unable or unwilling to grasp.