Certainly easy to get that impression, but that's just the news for you and is mostly due to a few wankers in the US. Certainly not "the west" as a whole. If Russia had a free press, I'm sure the picture would be much much much more pessimistic from their side.
On a more positive note, Ukraine is now receiving F-16's. Something many would never have though possible in the early stages of this war while everyone was trembling under the fear of provoking Putin and his threats of "escalation". Support is slow and never enough, but it has been consistent, and escalatory.
We're at an impass now where we're wondering if it will remain so, but the west/nato/free democracies around the world in general will not allow Ukraine to lose this war, it's just not ending anytime soon. It's a slow burn of Russian economy and capability that might take another 5 years and it'll cost a lot of good men. Anyone suggesting a ceasefire is braindead, corrupt or just a cnut.