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Fair enough, but I don't think I've suggested that racism doesn't exist, merely that it isn't as significant a factor in this case as is being made out. It's very possible that his race has exacerbated the treatment he's received from the media, but I don't think it's the root cause of it. I'd give more credit to the circumstances of his moving from Liverpool for example, than his ethnicity. It seems like the narrative is that Sterling has been deliberately picked out because of his race, which I don't believe to be the case. I can see why people would feel that way though, especially if they had personally experienced racism.
I'd be interested to know where the policy of 'if a black person tells you its racist, its racist' ends though, because I do think that is potentially dangerous territory. Surely there's huge variety amongst black people about what they actually consider racist, you're talking about a hugely diverse group of people with hugely diverse opinions on both ends of the spectrum. The way I was raised was to question what people say, and the idea of taking someone's statement at face value because of their ethnicity doesn't sit right with me.
I didn't suggest that what black people feel doesn't exist, or at least if it came off that way that's a failure in communication on my part. It's just that I'm dubious about this particular case, honestly it would be fascinating to me to recreate Sterling's career, the same behaviour and career moves, but as a white guy and see the differences in how he was treated. Do I think there would be differences? Absolutely, but again I'm not sure what the extent of those differences would be. I think he would have received similar stick for the tattoo for example, and for posing with a picture of himself next to a diamond encrusted sink immediately after a defeat. These are the kind of actions that the tabloid press in this country jump on regardless of ethnicity. The rumours about the number of children he had etc possibly wouldn't come about, but then there are stereotypes associated with young, working class men in that regard so I'm not entirely sure. But it's very possible that in that case, it was a racially motivated rumour.
Just to clarify, I don't think people should have to carry themselves a certain way. People should feel free to express themselves as individuals in any way they see fit, I was merely stating that in mainstream media it's inevitable that certain personalities and characters will receive more positive coverage than others. Is that fair? No, in a perfect world the media would give equal coverage to everybody, but that's the reality of the world we live in. The likes of Joshua, Kante, Scott Parker, Lampard etc will always receive more favourable coverage than more flamboyant, confident personalities like Fury, McGregor, Mayweather, Pogba. I said it earlier but I'll say it again, British culture in particular looks down upon extravagance or showy behaviour, the stiff upper lip and reserved stereotype still has weight in the country. That is a problem and as a nation we need to be more accepting of individual expression, but I'm not necessarily sure that attitude is motivated by racism.
I was meant to reply to this yesterday, but i've been quite busy.
Long story short - it's quite clear we won't agree on whether the attacks on Sterling are racially motivated or not.
When it comes to a supposed 'policy' of when black people say something is racist and when it's not - again, that's for black people to decide and not really a conversation that you can dictate. Very few times are there situations where something causes a wide variety of opinion on whether something is racist or not. That's not to say that all black people are singular monoliths with a grouped mindset - but rather racism is unexplainable and unless you can experience it, you just won't know, also that feeling is generally universal. Even more reason why questioning why not all black players have come forward to agree with Raheem was really quite bizarre and unnecessary.
I'm struggling to think of a recent incident where there was large differing opinions from black people on whether something was racist or not, and nothing is coming to mind. It's usually non black people who jump in and tell us something isn't racist, like this topic.
Finally you talk of the British media looking down on flamboyant personalities - yet Sterling hasn't shown himself to be flamboyant in anyway.
He's rich, so he does rich people things like buy things with unnecessary diamonds/gold but any multi-millionaire does the same thing. Richard Branson has his own island, Alan Sugar a personalised Rolls Royce and a private jet, The Queen's palace is literally draped in gold and diamonds, Jim Ratcliffe has 2 super-yachts and bought a box in the Royal Albert for nearly £3m - these are flamboyant personalities that show off their wealth and extravagance. When you put that into context where is the harm in buying your mum a house, buying some jewellery or wearing expensive clothes? Nothing. This idea of looking down on 'bling culture' is really steeped in a lot of ignorance about why bling culture is a thing, and it's also hypocritical when you look at the people who are really flamboyant with their wealth.
Raheem by all accounts is quiet and keeps to himself, nobody here can describe his personality or say he is particularly loud or expressive because he comes across quite reserved.
So I'm just not buying this idea that his coverage is down to the British culture/values, especially when you compare those who are really lavish and flamboyant - versus those who are young and rich. But again - we can agree to disagree.