So because a few black footballers have come out and expressed an opinion, this automatically shuts down all intelligent debate and the assumption automatically must be that they're correct? That doesn't seem like an intelligent way to go about debating a topic, but ok.
Nobody is saying Sterling should 'succumb to respectability politics', people are merely pointing out that plenty of players (black and white) are disliked and criticised in the press for having a certain type of personality. People like McGregor, Ireland, Fury, Beckham, Rooney in the past all have been criticised by the media for being overly brash and for showing their wealth off in public. It's part of British culture to be more restrained in how you display your wealth, we're a country that idolise the plucky, everyday humble, hard working underdog. We generally don't like the arrogant showman as much, that's just a cultural thing regardless of race.
That doesn't mean Sterling has to change, I personally don't care what he buys or what he wears and think the media coverage of pretty much all 'celebrities' in this country is a cancer, but I just don't agree that this coverage is predominantly racially motivated. I don't think Sterling would have received far less abuse if he was white but had moved to City, tattooed a gun on his leg etc ... these are actions the media would have picked up on regardless of his ethnicity.
People like Kante because he's humble, works incredibly hard and is down to earth. They don't like him because he's a docile black man. In general, his type of personality is going to grate on people less. Some people don't like Pogba because he's a confident, good looking, wealthy athlete, it's mainly down to jealousy and people from a different generation finding dabbing/constant haircuts etc distasteful. It's just a clash of culture/values.
If black people are telling you that something is racist, then who are you to insist that it's not racist at all? How can you possibly understand what its like to be black and be the target of racism? I would never do that for Jews and antisemitism for example, because it's not my place and I just don't have that same understanding.
Also lets not pretend as though this hasn't been happening to Sterling for years, and began with the press insisting he was a yardie with 4 'baby mommas' and like 5 kids at the age of 19? How can anyone possibly insist that there's no racism involved?
Secondly, what personality does Sterling have?
I see him buy things for his family, donate money to charity, and support his friends all the time. He shops at primark, flys easy jet and lets his car get dirty, seems pretty normal. The most controversial thing he's got caught up in is inhaling 'hippy crack' when he was in his late teens/early 20s. If thats grounds for disliking someone then surely, everyone should be disliked?
Also - I see all the time on this forum, and especially in the threads like 'PC gone mad' when old tweets are brought up, this idea that as a teenager or even when you were generally young, you do dumb things and you learn from them - so people shouldn't be judged on what they did while they were young/didn't know better, as long as they've learned from their mistakes.
Sterling hasn't been caught doing anything controversial since the hippy crack phase - so i'll ask again - what personality does he have, to warrant such criticism in the press? He seems humble, hard working and is one of the best English players in the country.
You mentioned McGregor, interestingly so - I guess you didn't realise in the run-up to the McGregor fight the way the press wrote stories about McGregor, versus how they reported on Mayweather? You'll see that almost every other day Mayweather's spending & lifestyle was under constant scrutiny, much more so than McGregor - despite them both being flashy, arrogant boxers.
Kante doesn't have a personality, which is exactly my point. There's nothing wrong with being like Kante - but equally, there's nothing wrong with being like Pogba - but this expectation that unless you're like Kante, you shouldn't expect respect, is the perfect example of respectability politics. And pinning it down to culture/values doesn't make it right either, because by doing so - what you're suggesting is that players shouldn't express their trueselves - or if they do, they shouldn't expect to be respected by the media and therefore society.
We're clearly not going to agree on whether it's racially motivated, and not to be rude - I mean this in the nicest possible way - I really don't care if individual people think it's racially motivated or not, because on the topic of racism, a large amount of people still struggle to understand it unless there's white hoods and N-words thrown about. & frankly, I don't have the time to explain the nuances or differences anymore.