It's ok we don't have to all agree.
Good midfield play is about more things than just control. Liverpool's midfield is all about control and it's generally considered a bit shit. Pogba's prime role is to create chances from midfield and open up play and he's the best in the league at that. He's not there to dictate tempo, that's never been his game. He's not he best at exerting control because by nature he tries a lot of risky stuff, including taking players on. But that's why we've 2 more midfielders in the starting XI.
We played Arsenal away from home, we created the most and best chances, we had more of the ball (more possession, touches, passes). Pogba played a big role in all that. The outcome was dictated by individual mistakes at the back and our strikers' failure to convert their chances. Not lack of control.
You say you're constantly slated for your opinion. I think ridiculous hyperbole might have something to do with it. "no idea where he's supposed to be" and "always in the wrong place" is not really based on reality. Sounds like something Souness would say and get laughed at for.