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I understand the important biological and political dimensions to the lifestyle/identity argument, and, as you say, potential prejudices. But I feel like ... 'born this way' isn't the actual primary reason we should be respectful of homosexuality, bisexuality, etc. The primary reason is because there is simply nothing wrong with it on a conceptual level with the identity or the "lifestyle".
The reason I feel it's important is because many defending Maz and Guehi have made comparisons to things that are literally choices like premarital sex or gambling. @BD and @Pogue Mahone have already explained this very well but that's disingenuous or, giving the benefit of the doubt, very misinformed because being LGBTQ is literally not a choice. It's not at all like saying 'i don't want to promote pre martial sex', instead it's like saying 'i don't want to promote black people'. It's even worse to compare it to an addiction like gambling or smoking pot for reasons that should be obvious.
Saying its a "lifestyle" to begin with is both extremely damaging and oppressive when that framing of it is pounded into young people just trying to sort out their natural feelings and identity and their place in the world. Likewise the whole notion that the emotions are okay but just don't ever act of it because that's a sin should be related to the trash bin of ideas historically because it's long past time for that type of thinking to end.