That is not what I said.
I like reading your posts. Articulated and balanced.
I think that 9/11 is a shortcut currently used for the wrong reasons. It's catchy but I'm not sure it really is appropriate. There are undeniable similarities: the surprise, the shock, the amount of vicitms. The trauma is comparable and most certainly even bigger for the Israelis when you take into account their smaller population. However the context is very different.
In one case it was an attack carried by a terrorist islamist organization determined to change the current world order and unite the muslims under one banner, Islam's resulting in the creation of the (new) Caliphate. By hitting the leader of the other world hard, but also western and even muslim countries under corrupt regimes on their own soil, they hoped to pit world populations against each other based on their religious background. They were in a logic of civilizational cash, or at least a religious one. Al Qaeda was also a transnational nebula without real roots, operating from and mostly in failed muslim states. Same for its even worse spawn, namely ISIS.
7/10 is something entirely different. It was an attack carried by an independentist palestinian islamo-nationalist movement using terrorist, and downright barbaric methods against an occupying, nationalist ethno-state, using its own terrorist methods in both Gaza and the West Bank. All of it in a push to change the course of a losing colonial war which conclusion was considered to be already foregone by too many. 7/10 was not the start, but the climax of a much longer on-going conflict. And that's what you get when you have entrenched extremists on both sides. Both the Hamas and the current Israeli government don't even remotely consider the existence of the other country as an acceptable option.
Two different issues requiring two different solutions, something that doesn't sit well with many who just don't and won't accept it.
But I digress. What Amir's experienced is something that about 99% of the posters here never had and will never do. For which they should be thankful I might add, and I don't even want to touch on the Palestinians decades long suffering. You can and should rightfully expect from the government members and elected representatives, to have a more nuanced view, keep a cool head and reign their own population in. Uphold the principles they were voted for. That's actually their job.
I find it however harder to demand the same level of restraint on normal people, they can express their anger, suffering but ultimately aren't deciding how war is going to be made. That's was my last my take on it and I don't think we should dwell on it any further.