Not sure if I'm from the same generation as you, I'm in my 50's.
But this narrative is false. There is literally quotes from way back that "prove" this to be false. In writings from various factions involved.
There are quotes literally saying there is no right to claim to the land 2000 years, or whatever, after but it will give an ally for Suez, for example.
The notion of rights and freedom for the "natives" was discussed. Certain proposals put forward. The acknowledgement of what the it's bits and maybes would be discussed at length.
People claiming to want "philosophical discussions" won't even accept the "proofs" put forward. A case in point is the whole "only democracy in the Middle East". People more knowl dgeable and literate than me laugh at this. Even from the Jewish side. Yet no we on here push a narrative. Get pulled on it and all of a sudden it's "people don't want to engage..."
More like people have picked a side and just push BS
I am in my later 70's so I have a few years on you.
Not sure what the narrative is that you refer to?
My earliest memory of the Palestine/Israel situation was of my uncle telling me about when he served in the Palestine Police and of a friend of his from that service who (so my uncle claimed) later tried to arrest Mencham Begin when he came on a state visit to Britain as Israel's PM. Begin had been the leader of a militant breakaway faction (Irgun) in Israel, and apparently there was still an outstanding warrant for his arrest, from the 1940's which my uncle's mate tried to serve when Begin stepped off the plane. This story fascinated me, but I cannot remember the name of my uncle's friend, or even if this event took place at all, in fact I can only find a reference to Begin being arrested in September 1940.
My Uncle's story did however heighten my interest and as I was now in my mid twenties (and no longer believed everything my uncle told me) I took an interest in trying to keep up and understand what was happening in that part of the world and after the 1973 Yom Kippur war when Israel's eventual victory over three of the surrounding Arab states, changed everything for Israel, from simply trying to survive to becoming the continuing occupier of land in the West Bank (
that took place in 1967 ) and a major player in the middle East.
At the end of WW2 it appeared that Britain was glad to get out of the mandate for Palestine (held from after WW1 up to 1948) at least my uncle confirmed this for me, when despite my ability to find things out for myself he continued to regale me with his exploits in the ME.
The hatred that seems to have been the only thing sustained between the parties on both sides over the intervening years, has a times seemed close to being suppressed (if not over come) but never has; whilst the 'to the death' emphasis which always seems to pervade beneath the surface in any of the attempts to search for peace is removed, it is difficult to see how things can get better, for either side... or indeed the world.