That's the point, isn't it? Talking about the "Middle East" as a single entity is very silly.
Your initial post wasn't whether the people were ready or not, it was that they didn't want it or even understand it like "us".
I think i made distinctions on cities and other areas, so it applies on what country we are talking about. I sure generalized but I definitely will not go country by country, region to region, town to town who is or is not prepared in a forum because it is impossible. I don't have the knowdelge, the time and the space and I am sure no one does even being much more cultured in the region.
The part that they don't want it (again, I said part of them and understand them, people of middle east as from MY perspective that I am not from there so sorry if its a "you" because you are from there, which I don't know) is because some of them had grown in another hierarchy, structure, organization, whichever word you want to describe it and is how they feel comfortable. And the part that they don't understand is because many areas that had never been exposed to democracy, I doubt that they spent much debating what democracy is at school if even went to school in some cases, specially women.
I can ask for sorry for generalizing but I am still of the opinion that a substantial part (maybe even a majority) of the middle east are not ready for being a democracy. From this point that is solely my opinion, I agree that this needs to be discussed case by case, country a country, region a region, the whys, the hows, the whens, how close would be each case to do the transition and what it would be needed
And sure, in any case, there will be always a certain degree of orientalism, but at the same time, throwing the word and thats it is a dismissive form of not wanting to make an effort to read between lines of certain wording that was there