So the players "feelings" have a higher meaning than the club's success? Come on, I mean, I understand your point but a) if he isn't smart enough to understand, that this is a business at the end of the day, then he doesn't even need to come and b) I think it is pretty easy to communicate things to an individual. If he really wants to come, he should be able to keep that little secret don't you think?
The clubs comes first and to be honest, a player who doesn't submit to that, shouldn't even be considered. We've got more than enough drama lately, the club should be as pragmatic as it gets for a while until there is some room to maneuver again and we can maybe afford some sentiments. You think, Bayern would risk their own goals to make a player happy? Or Liverpool? Do you think, Fergie would have cared about something like that? I am sure you don't - so lets not make stuff up just for arguments sake.