Neither, both shouldn't show their frustration. That first option is retarded though. Who is a better performer then him, who are you talking about? Every single player in our team? Obviously doesn't whine all game, that's a massive exaggeration, he also applauds passes and crosses too, unless that's been left out on purpose, despite playing much worse then who again? Who are you talking about here, every player?
So, if Berbatov does it, it's awful because he's worse then any player he's doing it too, whines all game anyway and plays much worse then everyone, it's unnaceptable.
But if Wayne does it, in a row of bad performances, a slump in form and he does the same thing, it's okay because he's of a better standard?
So our better players are allowed to show the same frustrations, despite how they are playing on the day, good or bad, because they are better players?