It’s not just “some folk”, it’s all non-Muslims. That’s the perspective we’re coming from.
The typical Western critique of women’s rights under the Taliban (and in Saudi Arabia and Iran also for example) goes way beyond clothing. It’s more broadly related to the distinction between the appropriate spheres in society for males and females to operate in which
@Sultan has mentioned a couple of times, whereby public life and decision-making is seen as pretty much exclusively reserved for males. In the West the clothing issue serves as a visually compelling symbol is this separation of duties, and so receives much attention, but it’s just one element to it. (Please not I’m not making any critique or judgement of my own here, just explaining where I believe the emphasis comes from).
For me it is some folk rather than all non Muslims, and it particularly focuses on Muslims. So for example some of the Jewish areas in Britain have certain Jewish communities who have certain rules that don't get picked up on much. This includes certain times when women and men can't walk on the same side of the road etc. Also certain christian communities don't have issues with covering and "modesty". So for me its almost exclusively either folk who don't believe in a God or anti islamist types you see on YouTube etc but maybe attached to a religion. Your Sam shamouns etc.
But regardless of that I understand the criticism and don't deny the rights of folk to criticise. What I am attempting to do is widen the argument for said criticism. As in it isn't solely women with certain aspects. Of the argument was, for example, that in the west we have women covering but the men not so much I would agree. Simply because the Awrah laws don't allow for the men to dress certain ways (but they do it).
I do agree with
@Sultan with some of his views. The reason for this is simply having been in certain environments or countries where it isn't simply a case of "oppression" in the true sense (imo). So where I'm from back in the day more boys went to school than girls. However it wasn't simply to oppress the girls rather a way out of poverty to educate the boys. We see many young men leave places of conflict and have the right wing foaming at why it's young men. Well put simply they are the most likely to get across and find employment and send money for the rest of the family. It's always been the way going back centuries.
For what it's worth I think the Taliban, specifically, situation was "overplayed" due to propaganda of a 20 year war. That isn't me defending the Taliban or supporting them. Just certain key statements receive more sympathy than others. Oppressed women for example evokes certain feelings for us here.
It was a different time but when I was born and raised for my early life the Afghan Russia conflict was on. We used to have some land which we would give to the Afghan refugees to use as they passed through. Mainly women and children. What always stuck with me was how much it was women who imposed the covering for the girls and would want the lads to learn to read and write so they could get employment. I saw young boys working, labouring for a day to bring money home. 10 years old and younger.
My own mum never learnt to read and write. She was born just after the partition and her mum died young. She never went to school. Learnt Quran reading from a local woman. She had one older brother. She was 4 and he would have been 6. He learnt to read and write and came to the UK as a teenager (on a wok visa whatever they were called at the time) and worked in the Yorkshire mills all his life. Sending money back for his sister and father (who was a farmer).
My mum always wore the traditional clothes with head scarf. My father wore shirt and trousers. She always insisted on my sister's wearing the traditional gear. My father was more open having lived here longer.
My sister's all have masters degrees, are married (non arranged) and wear full hijab (which isn't traditional for our community). One sister observed niqaab too until it became unsafe. She was an IT teacher at one stage for the WEA focussed mainly on women from non English backgrounds.
Interestingly they all started covering whilst at university.
The reason I write all that is because in my experience women have more of a say in these issues than men