Good points, bro.Sultan as someone who is involved over there I'm hoping you can shed some light on what I'm about to say.
Whenever it comes to Islam and many countries that claim to be Islamic the media/western world and folk on forums such as this get involved in the "women's rights" discussion.
This is fair enough, if rights are being violated we need to know.
My question or issue is why does no one mention the men?
So take this topic and let's look at it from that perspective. Oh women are oppressed in Afghanistan because they have to cover. Ok when did you last see a picture of an Afghani bloke without a hat/beard and the long shirt or baggy tunbaan (trousers)? They too have to "cover" it's the whole concept of Awrah. Even a house has to be designed a certain way with the notion of Awrah. So is the house now oppressed?
The point I guess I'm making is that often in these discussions we follow a narrative and stick with it without looking at the wider picture. Societies have their own customs and cultures. We in the west may find them backwards etc but they equally have a view on us in the west.
Very few people will understand the concept of "Aurah" unless well versed in Islamic knowledge. Basically, it's hardly ever talked about in mosques or households and just comes to us naturally through our upbringing and culture. Basically, we know to be modestly dressed. Similar is the case with women's garb it is only ever a subject in Western countries.
In Islamic countries, and even in most parts of India where the dominant religion is Hinduism the cultural focus is first and foremost on the protection of our women even if that means restricting their movement, staying home, etc. It is just how we're wired. To those who don't understand our culture and thought processes, this is regarded as restricting the freedoms of women.
I don't call it backwards. We're different and those differences should be respected on both sides.