Drainy
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So giving someone's dog a treat is now a threat?
It could be part of carrying out the threat.
So giving someone's dog a treat is now a threat?
If someone says to me "I'm gonna do what I want but you're not gonna like it" and then wants to give a treat to my dog, I'm not letting that happen either. In this context and circumstances, it could be perceived as a threat yeah. Just a bit weird how he worded the whole thing tbh.So giving someone's dog a treat is now a threat?
Nor i.If someone says to me "I'm gonna do what I want but you're not gonna like it" and then wants to give a treat to my dog, I'm not letting that happen either. In this context and circumstances, it could be perceived as a threat yeah. Just a bit weird how he worded the whole thing tbh.
Not an excuse for her behaviour, obviously.
Agree with much of what you've said mate. The woman is probably a moron - I say probably because I don't fecking know her. None of us do. What she said was pretty awful, granted, but you raise a good point that perhaps there is some validity to her assertion that she felt threatened. His choice of words were stupid, as was his decision to produce some unknown object for the dog. Did she know what it was? Perhaps she truly did feel threatened...
According to HIS account they were having what reads as a relatively reasonable conversion (one which he was entirely in the right) until he dropped the line 'I'm going to do what I want to do and you're not going to like it' then called her dog to him with treats...
I'm not shocked she called the police for help and neither should he if thought about it. A lot of women who were on their own with a stranger in a park after feeling threatened. So actually saying something that sounds like a threat is going to cause problems. The guy seems like a nice man so I genuinely think he was oblivious to her perception of the situation and possibly still is.
Again, not an excuse for her to jump to using race - yes she knows that it will be perceived as adding to the urgency to her call to the police. However if you don't think he escalated things with his actions and caused her to freak out and involve the police I'm not sure you care to understand the nuances.
On the 'victim blaming' point, in the UK we have a concept of split liability so an accident may be one persons fault or both in any apportionment. It's way too simplistic to always say one person is 100% right and the other 100% wrong. In this incident the public interest is entirely in the dog being off the leash (admittedly a local issue) and using the police to manage the situation. Which now more information has come out we can see that he contributed to her need for assistance, which is legitimate given the perceived threat, though clearly she used his race both as a means to intimidate him and try to create urgency with the police which is both clear racism and criticism and social consequences are warranted for that.
I would just suggest to every man to be careful approaching women on their own in a park, especially if you end up going some weird stuff like saying 'I'm going to do what I want and you're not going to like it'.
Is that fb? I can't find him on it, dont tell me he's been forced to shut it down due to online trolling?
Mr. Cooper's account of the undercard for clarity.
Agree with much of what you've said mate. The woman is probably a moron - I say probably because I don't fecking know her. None of us do. What she said was pretty awful, granted, but you raise a good point that perhaps there is some validity to her assertion that she felt threatened. His choice of words were stupid, as was his decision to produce some unknown object for the dog. Did she know what it was? Perhaps she truly did feel threatened...
On the other hand, she may have realised she overstepped and produced some excuse - that is also possible. Point is, I don't know, nor do I really believe it's my place to fecking demand her vilification online. What I find most vile - far more vile than her comments - is the public demand for blood. Why do people plead for this woman to lose her job a result of this? Why do people want her to literally suffer? Why take pleasure in that? There are a lot pricks out there, many of them in high-paying jobs, managing many staff beneath them. If it is a desire for a truly just world that these twitter crusaders are after, they better fecking get to work.
To me, no one comes out of this with any grace or dignity. Sounds like some uppity knob taking offence to some idiot woman. Feck me, how ridiculously pitiful on all fronts.
“We don’t have people like her in this neighborhood. Just send someone out to get rid of her. I’m not talking to you anymore.” The click in my ear was his goodbye.
My co-worker once got a call from a man who said, “My neighbors keep parking in front of my house. And they’re black.”
Dispatchers all have moments when they reach the end of their patience, and that was Bonnie’s moment.
She said, “It’s a city street. Unfortunately, anyone can legally park wherever they like. I’m sure it’s very frustrating for you. Why would you bring race into this?”
“Are you black?”
“I am,” she said.
“Put your supervisor on the phone.”
To me, no one comes out of this with any grace or dignity. Sounds like some uppity knob taking offence to some idiot woman. Feck me, how ridiculously pitiful on all fronts.
More here about the prevalence of racist calls to 911 from a former police dispatcher
https://www.vox.com/first-person/20...ky-living-while-black-babysitting-while-black
I'd be careful of making such absolutist claims. You speak like everything is either right or wrong and without any nuance.Why would you not want someone who is racist and morally wrong to lose their job? I'd much rather people like this face consequence for their actions.
When I first read his account I thought that was weird but after thinking about it I do sometimes run into mainly old people that carry dog treats but without a dog. I assume they love dogs but can’t manage one full time. This guy just comes across as an extra nice guy.So giving someone's dog a treat is now a threat?
I don't refer to him disagreeing with the race part... I refer to his twat comments about doing something she's not gonna like/producing treats for her dog.It's 2020 not the 50's or 60's.....minorities/Poc are not going take this shit anymore.
When I first read his account I thought that was weird but after thinking about it I do sometimes run into mainly old people that carry dog treats but without a dog. I assume they love dogs but can’t manage one full time. This guy just comes across as an extra nice guy.
Where’s the nuance in this video. . .I'd be careful of making such absolutist claims. You speak like everything is either right or wrong and without any nuance.
But to specifically answer your question... Why would I want someone's life uprooted? Well, it's not like I want this woman to flourish and become more successful after this... It's just that I don't take any great pleasure in someone else's downfall. Perhaps she has kids or other dependants. I also don't believe the bloke is entirely without blame - as I said, it's not beyond the realms of possibility that, given the ridiculous phrasing of his comments, and the ambiguity of his actions, that she did perhaps feel somewhat threatened. She's a twat for bringing race into it, I acknowledge that, but it doesn't mean I want to see her suffer.
People are seemingly conflating their anger with reprehensible cops - cops that might shoot black people without cause - with the actions of this woman.
Yes, I agree that she was in the wrong. Did you read my comment?Where’s the nuance in this video. . .
She is a racist which is morally wrong.
Nope. You pick a side quickly and hope to God you don't say anything that contradicts the general sentiment.It's as though you can't question what he was doing without people suddenly thinking you are siding with her.
She is obviously the one at fault here, and although his actions are a little strange, her suddenly changing it into a thing to do with race, rather than putting the dog on the lead is the biggest concern I was just thinking of my own reaction had some randomer said the same things he had said.
god damn heroChristian Cooper said he then pulled out dog treats. He told CNN he keeps treats with him for unleashed dogs because, in his experience, the owners hate when a stranger feeds their dog treats and immediately restrain the pets.
Mr. Cooper's account of the undercard for clarity.
Based on that if that's true, he wasn't being dickish. Even told her where she could take her dog. Her calling the cops for him giving her dog a treat is wild.
Yeah it was odd. I don't like people's pets off the bat, there needs to be some back and forth between me and the owner before I feel comfortable with interacting with their dog (feck cats).
It depends on the tone it's said, surely?I would have given him a pass for just trying to interact with my dog but to say “I can do what I want but you’re not going to like it” and then calling the dog over - while reaching into his bag - is going to put any dog owner into a bit of a panic.
I would have given him a pass for just trying to interact with my dog but to say “I can do what I want but you’re not going to like it” and then calling the dog over - while reaching into his bag - is going to put any dog owner into a bit of a panic.
Yeah he was completely right to call her out but he should have exercised better judgement before calling the dog over. Involving yourself with strangers is always going to carry risks, and escalating interactions even when you are right is not always the wisest decision.
If someone threatens your dog (at least to your perception of the events) then gets dog treats out to beckon the dog to them in what planet does she not become aggressive?
I agree she knew that race was a relevant factor when both threatening to involve the police (to intimidate him into leaving her and the dog alone) and when calling the police (to try and get an urgent response). Clearly she decided to use the understood perceived racism of the police to try and leaverage the situation- how is that not an error in judgement (as well as a lack of morality)?
Obviously she is suffering the consequences of her actions now. I am just trying to point out that under the circumstances a lot of people would have freaked out and not exactly come across well if posted on social media.
She doesn't get a pass at all for the racism (or breaking the rules in the first instance) but the freak out looks to be brought on by the fellows perceived threat.
He did go to Harvard. Almost all of them are weirdos. Plus, Boston. Ewww.
And she was stuck in a long line with one entire car behind her. Can't blame her, such hell.Another day, another video...
Karen in drive-thru uses n-word
https://tuckbot.tv/#/watch/gr2taw
I'm curious to see if anyone will defend this lady. She just wants a burger right?
I would have given him a pass for just trying to interact with my dog but to say “I can do what I want but you’re not going to like it” and then calling the dog over - while reaching into his bag - is going to put any dog owner into a bit of a panic.
It depends on the tone it's said, surely?
Written down it reads as threatening, but if its said in a light tone then it's not threatening at all.
He says he carries dog treats when he goes to the park for precisely that reason, so the dog owners will rein in their dogs to stop them from coming to him for the treat.
Another day, another video...
Karen in drive-thru uses n-word
https://tuckbot.tv/#/watch/gr2taw
I'm curious to see if anyone will defend this lady. She just wants a burger right?
Another day, another video...
Karen in drive-thru uses n-word
https://tuckbot.tv/#/watch/gr2taw
I'm curious to see if anyone will defend this lady. She just wants a burger right?
Ranting and raving and calling someone the n-word because you're hungry. Come on, it's happened all of us.Another day, another video...
Karen in drive-thru uses n-word
https://tuckbot.tv/#/watch/gr2taw
I'm curious to see if anyone will defend this lady. She just wants a burger right?
It's amazing that the consequences for this woman will do absolutely nothing to discourage the next person to inevitably do this and ruin their life.