Yes i got that bit thanks Moses, but why the outrage over one type of conning, when it happens continually by everyone from the fans to the coaching staff and players. We have all done it, shouted for a decision and most of the time we are not even sure we are right, but we try anyway to influence the referee.
So exaggerating is no different than appealing for a handball when you know the ball has hit the player's hand instead of the player moving his hand toward the ball. you are conning the ref to gain an advantage, and it happens en masse in the vast majority of those circumstances.
For me it is all opportunism, every bit of it. If you don't try it on, you won't get anything, so players and fans try it on repeatedly to con, mislead or cheat the ref into giving them the decision. I just feel the added emphasis placed on diving incidents by the broadcasters and media in general, to a public with a heritage of not condoning diving, plays a bigger part in shaping people's opinions against 'exaggeration',than other widespread forms of blatant referee conning which are not as condemned by the media and pundits and are therefore somehow deemed generally acceptable.