Don't be ruddy ridiculous. Someone who is a family member calling you something and someone in public life doing it is completely different. Now all these opposing fans being racists is just banter or joking? She knew exactly what she was doing.
A lot of people have mentioned the slanted eyes, for me and many others its not a bit deal. I showed this picture to my gf and also my mate who are both East Asian, and we did not find it so horrible.
I mentioned my family, to show that in the end this is not a big deal and among Asians we also make the same jokes.
Folks, this is s*it and should never happen, we all agree. On the other hand, the racism against black people is a gigantic issue deeply ingrained in the anglosphere, and almost foundational in the US. Stop pretending other countries must share the same sensitivity, just accept explanations or simply feck off.
I have to agree in a way. (I cannot agree that racism against black people is ingrained in the anglosphere or not and I cannot agree that other Europeans or Asians are free of racism against Blacks/Whites/Asians)
I went to Italy so many times and received nothing but love. I truely love this country and the welcoming people. I really cannot accept that this country or the people are painted as racist, but obviously some people there can act racist.
From my point of view, the issue is that the Anglosphere has a certain definition of what is ok and what is not, what is racism and what is not. Now due to the media and press this definition is imposed on other cultures (Italian, Polish, Japanese, Arabic...) (because somehow people in the rest of the world, me included, we get influenced by US-UK media) (Also the Anglosphere media always feels it has the definite answer for everything everywhere.)
What this girl did, didnt cause a huge uproar in Germany where I live nor among any Asian I know. So As an Asian I have to defend her and also the Italian people (now somehow Italy is seen as racist).
For example if I (who is East Asian) or anyone else move to Japan and speak perfect Japanese and live there in 4th generation, people will treat me as non-Japanese. Because this is how being a Nihonjin is defined.
Now BBC etc. criticize this as being racist... which from a point of the BBC makes sense, but from a Japanese pov they also have a right to stick to their definition of what being a Japanese means.
To give another example, if you are white and go to a club in Shanghai, you can enter for free and even get free drinks. But I have to pay (usually my white friends just say, that I belong to them, and I get the same priviliges).
Now for the Anglosphere this is deeply racist. But for the Chinese, its a simple business decision, they make more money if they have some white people, so they let them in for free.
(Nowadays Koreans also can enter for free, because they are seen as a "cool crowd".)
Other Asians and me, we are fine with it, and we might run our club the same way. So for us its not racist. For the BBC, I guess it is.
Things like that which as a one-off can be defended as wholly un-racist, even - but over years and hundreds of incidents/moments that people experience it eventually becomes something bigger. Now imagine an entire culture filled with things like this - and maybe you can understand why people in the UK & US are concerned about the impact of all forms of racism, no matter how seemingly insignificant or low-impact, and how all that adds up to the huge detriment of people and society.
I agree that we have to be careful to not allow racism, but also I think be careful to not accuse people of racism when its just a harmless joke.
Its a tight balance, but in the end personally I prefer to rather err on the side, not to accuse her of racism.
EDIT:
I am very happy people here take racism seriously and also are supporting Asian people.
Also I do not in any way condemn the Anglo-Saxon way of looking at racism, I think its a brilliant way to act. I just want to explain a bit from an Asian perspective and hope that other members here can see how the issue of racism is seen in different parts of the world and perceived by different people.
I have been to so many places and met so many wonderful people who have love in their heart, but everywhere people just have different approaches to issues such as racism, LGBT rights, drug policy, classism etc. etc. etc.
So in the end i just hope we can all when in doubt believe that the other person means it well.
Also I think if she was truely racist, starting a shitstorm and forcing her to apology wont help anything. The best is to grab a beer, tell a few jokes and see that in the end we all can have a good time together.