Or he's just frustrated that he might not get what he wants to compete? Any manager would be frustrated. Everything is turned as a negative to Jose when he does it, but when basically every other manager in football would complain (just as Conte did, who had a team that walked the league ffs), it's completely normal.
Also his job is on the line every year. If he doesn't perform he goes, but not getting the manager his targets makes things just that little bit more difficult. Not that it's Ed's fault or anything.