But what if you fall in love with J-Law and get emotionally attached? What if, as the end of those three years loom, you grow anxious knowing that this will inevitably end in heart-break and you ultimately break down in a fiery cesspit of despair. The three years passing, and just as you thought you and her were beginning to build something special, she does what she said she'd do all along and leaves you for another, and you're left there, alone, after three years spent with the most wonderful woman in the world, you have to rebuild, yet again, from the ground up, you have to try find another woman, but you've already spent three years with J-Law, three damn years building a strong relationship, laying the groundwork only for it to be ripped apart from you by that lead singer cnut from Coldplay or whoever. You now wonder to yourself if it was really, truly worth it as you sit there depressed curled in a ball sprawled across your own feces with no hope left in the world. And what did you get out of it anyway? She didn't give you the best years of her life, no, she used to as a tool to mature before f*cking off to ColdPlay dude in the prime of her life and being an even better girlfriend to him.