1. We wanted to see what the situation was with Alves.
2. We might have contacted Torino and his Reps maybe 4 months ago, but couldn't it be similar to how we asked PSV to let us know if anything happens with Memphis?!
3. You say only us and Juve were interested.
Please see the link below where Darmian is quoted as how it would be a "dream" to be linked with Barca and how he would sit with Torino after the season is done and figure it out.. So even assuming we were in for him 4 months back, there was no way he would have said yes.. When Alves signed a new deal and when Barca chose Vidal as their new future RB.. His choice(from the link below), then becomes Milan or us..
http://www.football-italia.net/66940/darmian-‘barcelona-dream’
4. Again one month back, it was reported Bayern were interested.. So naturally the player would want to see how it plays out.. Just like how a club has several options, the players too have them before making a decision. When Pep confirms Lahm would play RB next year, his option closes there and Pep did that last week iirc.. See link below..
http://www.bavarianfootballworks.co...nich-torino-rightback-matteo-darmian-transfer
End of the day, you can look at the deal as clinching a signature of a player courted by Europe's top clubs by letting our intentions early and waiting patiently by skipping over signing Clyne..
Or
Woody dithering for 4 months and got lucky..
Hopefully you consider this a serious enough reply and it puts your mind to rest.. Cheers