RaddyRed
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That training video reminds me of all these YouTube clips you see on here of players we are about to sign looking like world class superstars, who end up terrible.
Happened to me before. It was stupidest moment in my life.
I'm not shy telling it, but this changed me as a person.
There's just two options here.It's not that weird. This is my assumption what happened.
1. Mason cheated on her or fooling around.
2. She became paranoid, controlling.
3. They fight a lot after that.
4. Physically hitting each other.
5. One night when they had a big fight Harriot took all the photos just in case.
6. They got back together again. Maintain the relationship.
7. They fight again and Mason threatened to leave her.
8. She said she will upload evidence saying Mason is abusive and she will destroy his career.
9. The reaction was global, it goes way out of hand.
10. She took off the evidence, but too late.
11. Parents got involved.
12. And then what publicly happened, happened.
It's the most logical explanation.
For what it's worth, the alleged 'ITKs' (i.e. people who apparently know the young woman and have shared stuff from whatsapp, in turn referenced/screen-shotted earlier in the thread by posters far more involved in this than I am) suggest this is pretty much what happened. The former accuser also suggested in part that these were the reasons for the materials appearing online in, i think, an instagram statement. Again, I haven't trawled back to see all the when and what.It's not that weird. This is my assumption what happened.
1. Mason cheated on her or fooling around.
2. She became paranoid, controlling.
3. They fight a lot after that.
4. Physically hitting each other.
5. One night when they had a big fight Harriot took all the photos just in case.
6. They got back together again. Maintain the relationship.
7. They fight again and Mason threatened to leave her.
8. She said she will upload evidence saying Mason is abusive and she will destroy his career.
9. The reaction was global, it goes way out of hand.
10. She took off the evidence, but too late.
11. Parents got involved.
12. And then what publicly happened, happened.
It's the most logical explanation.
She married to "rapist".
It's not that weird. This is my assumption what happened.
1. Mason cheated on her or fooling around.
2. She became paranoid, controlling.
3. They fight a lot after that.
4. Physically hitting each other.
5. One night when they had a big fight Harriot took all the photos just in case.
6. They got back together again. Maintain the relationship.
7. They fight again and Mason threatened to leave her.
8. She said she will upload evidence saying Mason is abusive and she will destroy his career.
9. The reaction was global, it goes way out of hand.
10. She took off the evidence, but too late.
11. Parents got involved.
12. And then what publicly happened, happened.
It's the most logical explanation.
Some would do well to read this.For what it's worth, the alleged 'ITKs' (i.e. people who apparently know the young woman and have shared stuff from whatsapp, in turn referenced/screen-shotted earlier in the thread by posters far more involved in this than I am) suggest this is pretty much what happened. The former accuser also suggested in part that these were the reasons for the materials appearing online in, i think, an instagram statement. Again, I haven't trawled back to see all the when and what.
This could all be a cover story to protect him for whatever reason, it could be partly true but with MG more overtly culpable, it could be completely true. The point is though, for the rest of us, it's speculation, all of it: the annoying thing in turn is that people who only have access to the 'official' public evidence feel like they can conclusively pronounce on it rather than acknowledging that we're all in the dark. Understandable cognitive bias around the release of images or photos doesn't add up to grounds for a legal judgement or excluding someone from work, especially when those who are privy to more of the details (i.e. senior management, the legal team, the CPS) have indicated that material was recontextualised by further evidence. Again, you can speculate as to what that evidence was, infer lots of things, but I'm not sure how the responsible position here isn't doubt rather than a pronouncement of guilt (or certainty around what the evidence is and how it stacks up; same goes for unequivocal innocence obviously).
The problem when people start referring in absolute terms to how 'trauma' victims behave or women' behave in DA cases, is that there'll always be someone with professional experience of working with victims and who has also seen/experienced cases where accusations were proved false or partially false. Again, that also goes for those saying that their reuniting proves his innocence, of course.
Didn't realise that only took a football season to learn at the age of 21, I'm well behind.
I think the backlash would be too huge for them to even try it. You'd have a sizeable chunk of fans, MPs and the like all even more pissed because they'd deem Arnold to be U-turning on his promise to ship MG out.I think it would be a gamechanger if he and his partner do a controlled interview within the United media ecosystem where he offers some form of apology and she asks the audience to give him another chance at United. If that is done on the back of a successful loan spell that is juxtaposed against our probably woeful striker situation over the coming months, then the sentiment to bring him back would be pretty strong among a majority of the global fan base imo.
I’m not pushing the morality aside at all, I said I don’t want him to play for us again. That’s the moral side of it.Isn't that a contradiction? I assume you don't want him to play for us for moral reasons, but then you are pushing said morality aside to get a lot of money for him?
Whatever the girl did or not, the way Mason dehumanized her is absolutely despicable. She dropped the case, may be she wants his money and doesn't want to throw him under the bus as it would end everything for her. But that said, what she did or not do, Mason is absolutely terrible as a human. I would have bought his story of being young rash and stupid if he showed any form of remorse. He has shown nothing so far at least nothing public. No contrition, no regrets. He is not going to change. If he is not punished this will escalate. I don't want him anywhere near our team. Thank you.
I think it would be a gamechanger if he and his partner do a controlled interview within the United media ecosystem where he offers some form of apology and she asks the audience to give him another chance at United. If that is done on the back of a successful loan spell that is juxtaposed against our probably woeful striker situation over the coming months, then the sentiment to bring him back would be pretty strong among a majority of the global fan base imo.
That's probably someting United should have arranged months ago if the intention was to reintegrate him into the squad this season.
Shock horror! Journalist writes stories about an issue people might be interested in! That’s hardly the ‘gotcha’ you seem to think it is. Any online publication needs clicks to survive as a business, but that in itself is no reason to doubt the accuracy of their reports.Because I personally doubt their motivations are entirely altruistic in the way they've been reporting on this and the leaks from United they published. I suspect it's for their own benefit as they know anything negative to do with United equals mega clicks.
You are right in most counts, that we really don't know whats going on. And it can be both ways.Whatever she said to Greenwood when they're fighting, we will never know as well. Same thing.
For me, his punishment was the scrutiny, the scary thought of his life ended, the mental torture he has while in isolation period. That shit is tough to deal with.
People are labelling him as a terrible person, but yet we don't know what's really going on.
People can change when they're in the verge of losing their entire future.
13. ????It's not that weird. This is my assumption what happened.
1. Mason cheated on her or fooling around.
2. She became paranoid, controlling.
3. They fight a lot after that.
4. Physically hitting each other.
5. One night when they had a big fight Harriot took all the photos just in case.
6. They got back together again. Maintain the relationship.
7. They fight again and Mason threatened to leave her.
8. She said she will upload evidence saying Mason is abusive and she will destroy his career.
9. The reaction was global, it goes way out of hand.
10. She took off the evidence, but too late.
11. Parents got involved.
12. And then what publicly happened, happened.
It's the most logical explanation.
Sounds very reasonable based on the toxic relationships I know. If true though, they should do a public interview explaining what happened, acknowledging they both have a problem, and disclosing they are in therapy. Only way he can really come back without massive backlash.It's not that weird. This is my assumption what happened.
1. Mason cheated on her or fooling around.
2. She became paranoid, controlling.
3. They fight a lot after that.
4. Physically hitting each other.
5. One night when they had a big fight Harriot took all the photos just in case.
6. They got back together again. Maintain the relationship.
7. They fight again and Mason threatened to leave her.
8. She said she will upload evidence saying Mason is abusive and she will destroy his career.
9. The reaction was global, it goes way out of hand.
10. She took off the evidence, but too late.
11. Parents got involved.
12. And then what publicly happened, happened.
It's the most logical explanation.
I’m told it takes a lifetimeDidn't realise that only took a football season to learn at the age of 21, I'm well behind.
Yeah, I think it was also clear pretty early on that Crafton wasn't acting in good faith. Taking the stakeholder analysis that the club did (with the expected "hostile reception" from certain groups) out of context and blowing it up to be some sort of scandal was particularly egregious IMO.Crofton has been milking this as a vehicle for professional aggrandizement for weeks. In the beginning, his initial piece discussing United's plans to reincorporate the player was pretty good. Since then, its been a lot of "hey look at me, I'm relevant and the only one you should listen to".
He was cancelled by the U.K public. He will never be redeemed by the mob. His time in UK is done. He will have a stellar career on the continent
The only issues (well, chief amongst them anyway) are the legal ramifications. Whether fully innocent of the formal charges or not, he has to be careful about the semantics. People already picked up on the 'case dismissed' rather than 'case not being taken forward' in his statement and criticised it on those grounds.You are right in most counts, that we really don't know whats going on. And it can be both ways.
But Mason had a choice to put this to rest. I wish Mason came forward, admitted sincerely his mistakes and the club came out with a statement like this "Mason regrets his terrible actions and has openly admitted to making a big mistake in life. He understands the immense pain his words/actions might have caused his gf and all other women. He sincerely regrets his actions and wishes to turn a new leaf or given a second chance or something like that.. " and I so wish he did that.
It would have atleast made me comfortable looking at him in our red shirt. This whole thing was so botched up, I have lost all respect not just for him, but for our club management too. As a father of two daughters, my feelings around this incident is not at a good place.
Can we all collectively agree that morality has left sports in general?
Yeah just thinking about it, real victims of abuse or rape won't upload or vilify his partner on social media.
They go straight to the police. That in itself is a big clue.
What was the intention to reveal Mason's wrongdoings? To make him regret about something. Pretty obvious.
I’ve read a few things that suggest Greenwood hasn’t given up on his United career and the club are to consider a new contract to protect his value.
Ultimately I do feel that all options are still on the table and how this loan plays out both on and off the pitch will have some baring on that.
The statement from United was definitely not as definitive as it felt on first read. If anything if you read it back now, in the knowledge he’s left on loan, it’s quite carefully worded to allow the club to revisit matters at a later date.
I think this will rumble on.
It's not that weird. This is my assumption what happened.
1. Mason cheated on her or fooling around.
2. She became paranoid, controlling.
3. They fight a lot after that.
4. Physically hitting each other.
5. One night when they had a big fight Harriot took all the photos just in case.
6. They got back together again. Maintain the relationship.
7. They fight again and Mason threatened to leave her.
8. She said she will upload evidence saying Mason is abusive and she will destroy his career.
9. The reaction was global, it goes way out of hand.
10. She took off the evidence, but too late.
11. Parents got involved.
12. And then what publicly happened, happened.
It's the most logical explanation.
Morality has left everything tbfCan we all collectively agree that morality has left sports in general?
Can we all collectively agree that morality has left sports in general?
I got the impression some variation of it was arranged a few weeks ago before the U-turn. Would've probably made more sense to do it after the FA Cup, but the club probably didn't want to have to deal with it during the US tour.
It left a long time ago. Cheating has been rampant in football on and off the pitch for decades and the players have no real moral compass, they're taught how to win football matches, but not how to interact with regular people on a day to day basis. Even cricket isn't safe these days, you've got the Aussies and their usual onfield shenanigans and then of course the much more serious issue of racism in English cricket.Can we all collectively agree that morality has left sports in general?
It would be extra if he declined any call up whilst stellar elsewhere....It'll be funny if he ends up playing for England eventually.
That's a very basic way of looking at it. The term sportsmanship has moral connotations. Most rules in sports are based on fairness and there are plenty of rituals and traditions in many sports pertaining to respecting the opponent and treating them fairly.When has it ever been a part of it. Sport has always been about a physical transaction among athletes and an emotional transaction between athlete and fan.
The concept of ascribing morality to this process is relatively new and has yet to be embraced by a vast majority of fans who are largely interested in entertainment and the satisfaction of being a part of a winning side.
Shock horror! Journalist writes stories about an issue people might be interested in! That’s hardly the ‘gotcha’ you seem to think it is. Any online publication needs clicks to survive as a business, but that in itself is no reason to doubt the accuracy of their reports.
Accusing a journalist of not being ‘altruistic’ is such a weird criticism. Do you think United are being ‘altruistic’?
Only way Mason returns is if there a change in ownership and new leadership structure who can explain away the u-turn.
It's not that weird. This is my assumption what happened.
1. Mason cheated on her or fooling around.
2. She became paranoid, controlling.
3. They fight a lot after that.
4. Physically hitting each other.
5. One night when they had a big fight Harriot took all the photos just in case.
6. They got back together again. Maintain the relationship.
7. They fight again and Mason threatened to leave her.
8. She said she will upload evidence saying Mason is abusive and she will destroy his career.
9. The reaction was global, it goes way out of hand.
10. She took off the evidence, but too late.
11. Parents got involved.
12. And then what publicly happened, happened.
It's the most logical explanation.