I'm just being pragmatic. I have friends from Krajina who have lost everything that they owned in the ethnic cleansing by the Croats in 1995. My uncle lost everything he had in Croatia, land, property, machinery. Fast forward 20 years later and everyone is trying to get their land back via whatever legal systems available. However, my uncle would not dream to strap dynamite around his waist and blow himself up in a Croatian cafe. Nor would he ever encourage my cousins to grab a kalašnjikov, go down the road and murder as many Croats as they can get. He would also not vote for a government that is firing rockets on mainland Croatia because of some revenge feelings and in order to, hopefully, kill as many Croatians as possible.
The loss of land and life is a horrific experience (and I went through the same crap in Bosnia) but I'd still never ever consider risking the lives of my children by allowing them to be used as human shields, nor would I ever want to take part in any killing of innocent people.
All my family that had lost their land adapted to the new reality, kept on fighting for their rights legally whilst building a new life at a different location. I have lots of cousins and nephews and nieces who all fled between 1991-1995, and who are now not some refugees but citizens and full members of the society in which they live.
What I'm arguing for is that the main responsibility for endangering the lives of innocent people in Gaza lies with the Hamas. Every single jihadist that's firing a rocket from Gaza is willingly risking the lives of his own people. And please don't tell me I do not understand how terrible the Gazans feel etc, I'm from Bosnia and I know full well what horror is. I am, however, able to make a conscious decision not to attempt to murder innocent people on the other side of the fence but to protect the lives of my children by not provoking retaliation from a much stronger opponent.
PS. How come there were no 100+ deaths in the West Bank and no air strikes against targets in the West Bank this week?