We were negotiating with Sancho the previous Summer, constant stories saying we are in talks but can't agree a fee. Same as Frenkie now. We didn't get it over the line so we signed him a year later. That's what a year late means. Same with Fernandes, we had half a season of near relegation form because we had the likes of Pereria as our number 10 because we couldn't get Fernandes over the line. We aren't in talks for Bellingham nor are we anything to do with him other than the BS rumours you could apply to endless midfielders. Bad example.
The facts speak for themselves, you're right: Maguire, Fernandes, Varane, Cavani, Telles all made their debut for us in a competitive game because we didn't get them in before pre-season. I know there are (fewer) examples on the contrary, just like there are lots of signings under Fergie that took months and that take other clubs months. But it happens far too often that it takes far too long and the facts are there to back that up. And we haven't even touched upon those signings that don't ever happen despite long drawn out talks.
You're right about me sounding like a drama queen, as we could announce De Jong in 2 weeks time and he'd get a decent pre-season with us. But my initial post was not hysterical, just that we've been here before where we either sign him unnecessarily late or not at all. And we 100% have.
This fanbase is just a little brainwashed by the whole financial side of things. Fair enough Maguire would take weeks as the quoted fee of £75m was far too much. But we just signed him anyway for £80m when we could have got him earlier and a full pre-season. The price for De Jong at the moment is fair but it's clearly our policy to draw it out, which from a footballing perspective makes no sense. Fans are brainwashed that it's necessary from a financial point of view.