Asylum processing centre's in war zones? Not sure if that' going to work.
Are you being wilfully obtuse?
The present UK policy (albeit poorly executed) is to take refugees from the UN's facilities in Turkey, Lebanon and Jordan. Would it have been beyond the wit of Merkel or the EU to enact something similar, or were grand yet foolish gestures the only idea which sprang to mind?
The decision to allow unlimited refugiees in Germany was a German decision only, nothing to do with the EU, for humanitairian reasons. Not that I think it was a good idea mind.
Mind you, I still suspect the EU is a far more humanitarian organization and far less greedy than the Tory party or UKIP.
Unless German was going to suddenly beam them all up, Merkel's high-handed declaration could not but involve other EU states. How else were they going to get there after all? Not to mention the need for increased SAR, as the vessels of the traffickers sank in the Med?
What ever happens to the UK there will always be conflicting interests, it's how politics & diplomacy work. Picture the scenario where the UK leaves the EU. In order to obtain those fantastic trade the UK will have to make concessions which will have a great impact on many of a British goverment's policies, just as it would do for any other country in the world.
These differences are fundamental, and beyond the scope of diplomats to alter. Such should be blindingly obvious by now, for the EU has moved further and further away from the trading entity Britain was comfortable with. If we were part of the single market and only that (with the option of migrant controls if numbers reach an unsustainably high point), i might well not be voting as i am.
Trade (w/o TTIP), yes. Environmental and consumer protections, yes. Science and energy, to very possible. Endless laws and government, No.
No taxes or harmonisation of such, no ECJ/EAW, no foreign policy department, no aspirations for an army, no parasitical and corrupt parliament, no flawed currency union, no overreach on agriculture e.t.c.