As a grown man, I know that I can't get my way all of the time. Being in the EU is much the same.
We are subject to EU laws on human rights, fisheries, agriculture, on how many hours we work a week, on business, on green energy, on advertising... on nearly everything. It would be ridiculous to expect to be the biggest benefactor of every single policy, and some we might flat out disagree with. But you know what's brilliant? All the other countries have to abide by them as well. If Viktor Orban starts pushing too far with his policies in Hungry, maybe the EU will have a framework on how to deal with him. If Portugal tries to over fish their seas to help push the economic growth, the EU can stop them too. If Italy decides to go back to the age of cheap coal powered stations to save money at the expense of public health, the EU can sort them out too.
On the surface it looks like everyone loses from the EU; no one is entirely happy. Game theory might suggest we should leave the EU (because it's better for us), and try to get our own way (because it's better for us), except of course it's not.
So to answer your questions:
I don't understand the question, but largely we will be continuing as we are now.
If you say so. By 2050 Britain maybe the
EU's largest country, and the
EU's largest economy, and David Cameron wants a two speed Europe anyway (
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4). Cameron's vision for Britain in Europe is largely what is has already been since we didn't join the Euro. Not quite in the core, but with vetos on what is important and as part of the negotiations. And basically, that vision would be shared by most Labour leaders and most Lib Dems.
This doesn't merit a response. Certainly not an adult one without name-calling and petty insults. You've basically given up here with any sort of debate, and nailed your flag firmly to a mast.