Celebrity Allegations, #MeToo etc

Oscie said:
I get why someone who presumably was quite known for making creepy comments, hence the tag, would be keen to overcompensate but really, reign it in a little. It's a bit obvious. You're worse than an ex-smoker.
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i got the tagline because i made one single comment about blinds seemlingly erect penis in a photo

and i still smoke

so.. suck it
 
Silva said:
perhaps ending the exchange is for the best, at this rate you might feel we're intimate enough to grope me
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I'm okay with you looking at footballers' groins, honest I am. It's when people like you tend to let all the sexual repression build up inside and then it suddenly gets released, that's when I worry.
 
We'll be hearing about Tom Hanks at the end of 2018 as a final feck you to all these annoying celebrity worshippers who need to stop being so precious about their idols.
 
Oscie said:
I'm okay with you looking at footballers' groins, honest I am. It's when people like you tend to let all the sexual repression build up inside and then it suddenly gets released, that's when I worry.
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what the feck are you on about

do.. do you grope people to stop you from raping them?
 
Silva said:
i got the tagline because i made one single comment about blinds seemlingly erect penis in a photo

and i still smoke

so.. suck it
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And how do you think other people feel about having you comment uninvited about their genitalia?

I mean you're very keen to push the 'you're a pervert' line, perhaps you haven't quite come to terms with your own sexual desires. I'd suggest having a chat with your court appointed liaison officer.
 
The simmering sexual tension between Oscie and Silva is now my favourite thing on the caf.
 
Oscie said:
And how do you think other people feel about having you comment uninvited about their genitalia?

I mean you're very keen to push the 'you're a pervert' line, perhaps you haven't quite come to terms with your own sexual desires. I'd suggest having a chat with your court appointed liaison officer.
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i'm sure they don't like it, and instead of defending that comment i shall wear the shame
 
Silva said:
i'm sure they don't like it, and instead of defending that comment i shall wear the shame
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Were you 'wearing the shame' when you dismissed the importance of it earlier on?

I think your comments towards me might be projections. Don't worry, I won't judge.
 
Silva said:
i dismissed your extrapolation which you've since conceded was wrong dumbass

now, since the tension has clearly been picked up by everyone, are you gonna take my virginity or what
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Okay, it's just you seem routinely quite keen to escalate the conversation to actual assault

My point that people don't ask for permission to kiss seems to have you desperate to escalate it to talking about rape. I'm not proving a phone sex service so that you can get off.
 
Oscie said:
Okay, it's just you seem routinely quite keen to escalate the conversation to actual assault

My point that people don't ask for permission to kiss seems to have you desperate to escalate it to talking about rape. I'm not proving a phone sex service so that you can get off.
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uh

what

are you going to take my virginity by raping me?

i'm out
 
Silva said:
uh

what

are you going to take my virginity by raping me?

i'm out
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No, I wanted to talk about the every day, often innocent acts of intimacy that occur often without explicit consent being given. And you're all "Tell me how much you want to grope them and grab their ass" and heavy breathing and shit. I wouldn't mind but you're giving me mixed signals.
 
even if i was a virgin by the way, what would actually be wrong with that, we don't all have to be gropey slags which is exactly the point, and why you shouldn't assume someone is up for some fondling or whatever just because you may be
 
Oscie said:
Of course it is, that's what human beings have done since music and alcohol were invented until someone decided to analyse the shit out of it under the precursor that unless they find any form of looking at someone below the neck as exactly the same as rape then they'll be condemned as a sexual prisoner.

There's a difference between sexual assault and this new 'normal' were everyone has to pretend when they were young they kept restraining order-like distances from any member of the opposite sex and never went in for a kiss unless there was something signed in writing and notarised by her parents.

Everybody, unless they're a virgin, has made a move on someone who weren't willing to reciprocate or had a move made on them they weren't expecting and didn't want. That's what humans do. That's what humans have always done. Young people, particularly. Just go to any nightclub where strangers mingle on the dance floor after consumption of alcohol.

I can't remember a single occasion where I've asked for permission to kiss someone or been asked by someone if they could kiss me. I've never heard anyone do that either. That isn't how life works. You meet someone you like, you dance, you drink and you or they move in for a kiss. Chance they/you didn't want to kiss, you might pull away, you might go through with it and then afterwards regret it. It's not assault.

We're allowing the norms of intimacy to be rewritten by people who've clearly never experienced much of it.
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Silva said:
they're saying don't assume they're okay with creeps like you grabbing their arse because they danced with you for 5 minutes
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Oscie said:
I couldn't imagine anything more of a mood killer than paperwork.
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Silva said:
after all, you danced with them for 5 minutes how can they NOT be worshiping your dick
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Oscie said:
Okay, it's just you seem routinely quite keen to escalate the conversation to actual assault

My point that people don't ask for permission to kiss seems to have you desperate to escalate it to talking about rape. I'm not proving a phone sex service so that you can get off.
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Silva said:
uh

what

are you going to take my virginity by raping me?

i'm out
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You respond to absolutely everything by bringing up violent sexual imagery. I'm sorry I find that odd for someone doing the puritanical act and wanted to make hay by accusing someone else of being a pervert.
 
Oscie said:
You respond to absolutely everything by bringing up violent sexual imagery. I'm sorry I find that odd for someone doing the puritanical act and wanted to make hay by accusing someone else of being a pervert.
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i will stop using violent sexual imagery now

see, it's not very difficult to change something when you're doing it wrong
Oscie said:
unless they're a virgin,
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Oscie said:
creepy virgins
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actually nvm i'm okay to go along with this projection stuff, i'm hiding a monster and you're pretending you've touched a bum in a nightclub
 
Meanwhile a woman who worked on the 2013 film Now You See Me said staff knew "not to wear any top that would show our breasts, not to wear anything that would show our bottoms" or any close-fitting clothes if Freeman was around.
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http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-44247166

That’s an odd thing to say. But yeah I know not to wear clothes that show my penis in front of co-workers. Because if I did they’d report me for sexual harassment.
 
Judge Red said:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-44247166

That’s an odd thing to say. But yeah I know not to wear clothes that show my penis in front of co-workers. Because if I did they’d report me for sexual harassment.
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you've missed her point, simply wearing clothes that fit was enough to set him off, imagine if simply wearing normal clothes was enough to set off a coworker every single time they saw you, not even crotchless pants, just normal trousers that don't leave an inch between your bum and the fabric
 
Morgan was accused of having an affair with his step granddaughter, so it's not exactly surprising he doesn't understand boundaries.
 
Cheesy said:
To be fair if there's a silver lining, the entire film is about Spacey putting on the facade of being a decent person while being pure evil under the surface. So I suppose in that respect it still kind of works, albeit in an even more sinister context.
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That makes some sense actually.

adexkola said:
If it's good I'll watch it. Have no problem separating the art from the artist. Unless if the art is shit, then good riddance.
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Hm, I dunno about that personally.
 
Rado_N said:
That makes some sense actually.



Hm, I dunno about that personally.
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Yeah same. I'm at least a little bit uncomfortable watching a Roman Polanski film. I dont think i've watched any of his movies more than once. I can't deny hes a good director but I dont think I really enjoy watching his movies despite that.
 
Sweet Jesus even Morgan Freeman is a bad guy? My faith in humanity hs been destroyed.
 
Typical caf. You have to wade through 3 pages of shite to find the actual news. I'm still no closer to knowing who or what Fred is.

Thank god my celeb idols all seem like complete nerds who wouldn't even dare approach a woman.
 
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