Well put! Been fed up of anti-Qatar brigade. I for one believe that the World Cup is going to be a huge success in terms of viewership. Fans from gulf and Asia have been clamoring for tickets and are excited been given a chance to experience the WC at an affordable price, considering its location and ease to reach Qatar as against any European or American (North or South). Counting down to the bonanza!
There are still valid criticisms of the world cup being held in Qatar, as there were n Brazil (where I lived at the time), Russia, the United States, South Africa, etc... We should not ignore the plight of the workers, or corruption within FIFA. I just find it extremely dissapointing that people come up with all these objections only when they dont get their way. Otherwise, they are fine with human rights abuses, corruption, discrimmination, etc.. not enough for me to boycott the thing, mind! Will also be enjoying as many matches as I can.
Serious question, what are the 'good' countries out there?
Are there any? Good is a strange, conditioned, and subjective concept. Ultimately, like you, people have a worldview and pursue it, often with a dramatic human toll. No one is more guilty of this that the west. Gun to my head, I'd say Costa Rica is a good country.
Problem is that whatever the criticisms of Western foreign policy, most people are relatively free there. The same cannot be said about LGBT people and women in Qatar. Why host a tournament meant to attract people all over the world when much of the world isn't fairly treated by the hosts? You shouldn't. That excludes Qatar and SA and means countries like the UK/US are better choices.
Relatively free? I am a black man living in the South Side of Chicago. Please spare me the "relatively free" bit. There are large swathes of the population that are treated as underclasses. Much of the world isnt treated fairly by the US, Brazil, South Africa, Russia, etc... the problem isn't pointing it out when its Qatar, but failing to do so when its in the West. At face value, it really undermines your outrage when its ok for some but a sin for others.
Whats more, most of these admittedly despotic regimes are propped up with western dollars, western policy and western military power. And who cares if people live relatively free there, if policy from these countries directly results in oppression, death, and destruction elsewhere? I fail to see how living freer in the US and UK (if we admit thats the case), negates their actions causing people to live tortured lives in foreign lands. That is ofcourse if we agree that a life lived is worth the same in the UK as it is in Haiti, or Afghanistan.
Anyways, I recognize that my POV may completely undermine the view you have of your world, where some (people like you, in your country, and in the west) are good while others are bad. I don't expect you to change your opinion. Just know that other opinions exist and they are not more incorrect than yours.