@Earthquake
let me put it this way. i have both a daughter and son and by the most oddest of chances they were both the victims of the following true stories.
if my son were the victim of one of the teachers, i wouldn't be shouting all over the place, "yes, my boy lost his virginity to an older woman at 12, get in son". I'd be more worried about what affect it would have on him later in life, would he expect it to be normal etc later in life. He was 12, one of the victims and she got off. how the feck did she get off (pardon the pun) after what she did?
If my daughter were to be AJ's victim, i'd be just as worried in the sense how she'd be traumatized for sure, without a doubt. It was illegal and he abused his position. But also i'd feel partly responsibly as she wasn't innocent and she was near 4 years older than the male victim.
So again, why the difference as you're obviously more aware of it than me as i can't find an answer to my question