I agree with
@InfiniteBoredom too but I don't ever remember disagreeing with
@Revan when it comes to fantasy reads so I'm in a weird place. Seems like most of the issues are due to replacing Jeyne Poole with Sansa and not fully bothering with the consequences of the change.
Is there any rule that women are not allowed to gain ascendance in the North? I don't remember coming across any such ideas. Jeor's sister Maege was ruling Bear Island and now Lyanna Mormont is their head. Alys Karstark's leading the Karstark house now. Lysa Arryn was head of Vale (don't remember if she is supposed to only be a regent until Robin comes of age). Without any male heirs, I thought rest of the Westeros allow women to head the house. It's only in Dorne where the oldest (whether male or female) is allowed to lead the house, right?
Sansa should have become the head of Winterfell ahead of Jon imo, what with Jon not being a Stark. Ramsay was legalized by Roose Bolton (Warden of the North) and only then he's allowed to head the Bolton family, innit? It doesn't stop me enjoying the show, just a minor complaint.
There are a lot of things to complain about TV show and there are a lot of things TV has done well which weren't in the books (Arya-Tywin for instance) but I've made my peace with both the media (except
DwD which can go screw itself) and continue to enjoy both. I'm optimistic that GRRM would avoid the inconsistencies in the books since the medium provides lot more scope (which is ironically one of the reasons for the books taking so long to write)