Absolutely they do, and they are all failing us. I'm not out here defending the media or the politicians, in fact I will unequivocally say, again, that they are almost, to a person, failing us. Whether it be for votes or ratings, their goal is not to better the world, or even the US, but instead to enhance themselves. These are people that need little excuse to avoid doing what is right in the service of doing what is advantageous to them and those they are beholden to. My only comment was that those in search of change can not merely be on the side of what is right and just, but that they must also be as close to perfect in their actions as possible. What the family members did was noble and what needs to be done. What the college protesters did was by and large brave and just. But in both cases, instead of those people leading the news they were relegated, at best, to the end of the show as those who purported to be acting in their name gave the media and politicians the red meat they desired.
You talk about polite and peaceful protest not making change possible.. I would ask you to point me towards meaningful change that happened in this country in the last 100 years where the driving force was violence or rage. That is simply not how change happens.
The US government is indeed an active participant in genocide, and if you want to go to jail for that then go for it. If you truly feel that way then I would expect you are on your way to turn yourself into the ICC, right?