Fooza
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good on the coaches to resign, the manager hasn't
good on the coaches to resign, the manager hasn't
Pathetic by Vilda not to resign as well.BREAKING: The entire coaching team who worked under Spain women's head coach Jorge Vilda have resigned with immediate effect.
Thank you for confirming what others have denied.
It's not what I say, it's the model that says, I merely asked the question using the model. It's not just the kiss he's been criticised for, he certainly wasn't the only one engaged in other actions. While i agree he holds/held a position, I wasn't referring to his position, and we've no idea what he'd do in other circumstance. I would agree that how he might act towards the queen could be culturally different than someone who is not the a queen. I'm not sure it is just about power.
We've no idea what happens in private, i'm not sure speculation is helpful.
Out of interest what do you think about the latest developments, in the context of your comments about culture?
BREAKING: The entire coaching team who worked under Spain women's head coach Jorge Vilda have resigned with immediate effect.
Who is?God, you're so obvious...
I've not kept up to date; in terms of culture (country level) and any posibilities there is something there, i've not seen or read anything that changes my mind that it's an unanswered question. Other posters can jump up and down all they want, cite this group or that, it's a representative of a group, not the group (e.g. there have been no votes in groups on the issue i'm aware of). It'll remain unanswered, probably, until we hear from him.
As for the rest (corporate level); It's a mess, that is football, b*m slapping, kissing others, hugging etc is throughout the adult game and not aligned to many western models of corportate behaviour/laws. Even one of the spanish team, i believe, grabbed and wiggles one of her private parts to a camera. Until football, as a whole, changes, it's in danger of a two tier systen, a system of separation. When really, it stems from the governing body not coming down on unnecessary contact in both the mens and womens game equally.
Given this is going legal, i'm not going to get involved with commenting on he said/she said and attributing blame or not attributing blame.
You suggested though that this furore is coming about because of a fundamental misunderstanding of spanish culture by non Spaniards.
Yet almost a dozen Spanish coaches have resigned now because of this and top Spanish politicians have also commented.
So how do you square this with your previous posts?
Could you also give some examples of the Spanish players wiggling private parts to a camera and perhaps expand a little on exactly what you mean by that?
People tend to do that when things are obvious. The fact your portray this as he said/she said tells me everything I need to know about where you stand on this. Your refusal to admit you were incorrect shows you're not this seeker of truth you pretend to be (the now common "just asking questions" bullshit), but you've made up your mind, sadly on the wrong side.. So yeah, you're really obvious...I am? The only thing your post demonstrates is that you fill holes in gaps where full knowledge doesn't exist.
I think you’ll find I asked a question whether there was a element of country level culture. Did you read my comments on corporate culture? Why would I need to square anything?
Thank god. I assumed so but wanted to make sure.
People tend to do that when things are obvious. The fact your portray this as he said/she said tells me everything I need to know about where you stand on this. Your refusal to admit you were incorrect shows you're not this seeker of truth you pretend to be (the now common "just asking questions" bullshit), but you've made up your mind, sadly on the wrong side.. So yeah, you're really obvious...
Could you define what you mean by 'country level culture'? I don't understand how you could say it's unclear at the country level if this is acceptable behaviour when basically anyone in Spain (well, boy literally; a representative sample) not working with Rubiales has condemned what he did - so I'm wondering if I just don't understand your term here.I think you’ll find I asked a question whether there was a element of country level culture. Did you read my comments on corporate culture? Why would I need to square anything?
I think you’ll find I asked a question whether there was a element of country level culture. Did you read my comments on corporate culture? Why would I need to square anything?
Could you define what you mean by 'country level culture'? I don't understand how you could say it's unclear at the country level if this is acceptable behaviour when basically anyone in Spain (well, boy literally; a representative sample) not working with Rubiales has condemned what he did - so I'm wondering if I just don't understand your term here.
People tend to do that when things are obvious. The fact your portray this as he said/she said tells me everything I need to know about where you stand on this. Your refusal to admit you were incorrect shows you're not this seeker of truth you pretend to be (the now common "just asking questions" bullshit), but you've made up your mind, sadly on the wrong side.. So yeah, you're really obvious...
Questions you never actually get into yourself. You're 'just asking questions' without ever engaging with all the arguments people have provided why this is apparently not acceptable behaviour in Spain (given all the uproar comes from Spain itself) - and so I have no idea what cultural imperialism is doing in your post here.I didn’t say it was or wasn’t acceptable; I asked whether all the behaviours could have an element of country level culture. It’s other who focused on one behaviour. If you look through the posts your see the Lewis model and question about cultural imperialism
Never mind just doubling down, why not keep going...
Remember - this is the kind of threat making and self-justification that goes on in public against one of the biggest stars in the women's game. Imagine the kind of threats that they can make in private to players and officials who are thinking about making a complaint about their conduct away from the cameras.
Yup. It's as predictable as it is depressing. It's basically men telling women to speak up, but you can bet that we will do everything we can to downplay what happened or find ways to blame you for it. Oh and better be prepared for the shit storms coming your way on social media. But other than that, yeah, we will totally have your backs.Society keeps telling women to come forward when they are harassed or assaulted, but then even if there's pictures, audio or video of that assault, they will still face legions of men saying there's nothing there.
This comment is not about this thread, but just having a quick look on social media, tons of men see nothing wrong with this.
Never mind just doubling down, why not keep going...
Remember - this is the kind of threat making and self-justification that goes on in public against one of the biggest stars in the women's game. Imagine the kind of threats that they can make in private to players and officials who are thinking about making a complaint about their conduct away from the cameras.
Wtf are you talking about? Is it OK to kiss someone on the lips if they don't consent? Yes or no?I think you’ll find I asked a question whether there was a element of country level culture. Did you read my comments on corporate culture? Why would I need to square anything?
Stop falling for the bait. There is a reason that poster is still a Newbie after 7.5 years and 2k posts.
Stop falling for the bait. There is a reason that poster is still a Newbie after 7.5 years and 2k posts.
Wtf are you talking about? Is it OK to kiss someone on the lips if they don't consent? Yes or no?
It's ok, the poster is gone now.I left him well alone after failing to get a straight answer to a very simple straightforward questions. He’s just clogging up the pages at this point, offering nothing useful to the discussion.
It's ok, the poster is gone now.
"Mainstream media agenda?" That's a poor way of describing people who have a problem with management misconduct in the workplace.Wow. Sounds like an interesting organisation to work in to say the least. If you're part of the establishment you're golden, otherwise...
Spanish people are generally touchy feely to me but that seemed inappropriate even if it were in the heat of the moment. He just had to apologise and "nip it in the bud" if you will.. instead he becomes the new antagonist for one of mainstream media's biggest agenda/program.
Wish there'd be a media agenda and programming for that, so that more workplaces would be more pleasant."Mainstream media agenda?" That's a poor way of describing people who have a problem with management misconduct in the workplace.
In its way, it's a good thing that his overwhelming sense of entitlement and his belief that he is untouchable stopped him from apologising. The fact he continued down the path by getting his publicity team to manufacture a statement the player hadn't made and then threatening to sue the player (using the RFEF's money) is a testimony to the man and what he considers normal.
As the president of the Liga F (women's professional league in Spain) commented - “The character that many of us know in private has been seen publicly."
It has been handled very badly, but for it to blow over would be to risk having the issues it highlights sink again into the background—a rear-guard done to preserve the old ways. There's a real chance to break this open, break it down. Rubiales' complacent arrogance in the face of the uproar is serving to show people what lies behind such macho, invasive shows of entitlement.It's staggering how poorly this has been handled from start to current point.
You would think someone would have had a word with him and told him to just issue an apology and chances are that it would blow over. Instead the path he's chosen has drawn far more attention to this issue than an apology would have [...]